Re: How do i go about asking a girl out??!!
Though I am too old to be called a girl I will offer some advice from the female perspective for you.
First of all ScareCrowReturn had some great questions and I think he was right about those being the first things you need to decide on. My only question is are you looking for a girlfriend or to get laid since it makes a difference in how you handle things.
If your answers are in the affirmative then I say follow his advice. Also I agree with droded about calling the girl if you are too nervous to ask her in person. There is always even the old-fashioned method of slipping her a note, which has a romantic appeal to it. All in all, your best bet will be to do it in person as confidence (even manufactured) is very attractive.
I think that JohnDoe has the right idea, but I would add just one thing. If she doesn't schedule a date right then she isn't going to so you might as well lick your wounds and move on cuz it ain't going to happen. Nine times out of ten a girl knows within the first 5 mins whether she will sleep with you among other things and changing her mind isn't easy.
I, personally, don't like the texting and facebook idea (not because it is gay , which is a WAY over used word and not nice) for the same reason that you were able to post this question on here in the first place without much embarrassment. There is no personal contact and while that makes it easier to do it also takes some of the realness out of it ...imo. I cracked up when I read what InnOcent vOice wrote about doing it in person being funny as you could catch a girl un-ready. I wonder how he would have made it through the "dark ages" I lived through...no offense intended InnOcent...just feeling my age.
Anyway, my last bit of advice is if you ARE looking just to get laid then the web sites are the places to look. Check them out and look for girls in your area and your age. Start a dialogue with one, gradually move into talking about meeting and if it is a no go move on to the next. Eventually persistence should pay off.
Actually, I guess if you don't have a girl in mind already and just want a anyone to date then that would work too, you just don't really know what you are getting when you get them off the internet. My brother got his off of there and now 9 yrs later and 3 kids he is miserable and stuck ...actually he was miserable 2 months in, but then pregnancy has a way of locking you down.
Anyway, I hope that helps a little bit. If you have any other questions about anything that you want a female point of view message me anytime.
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