the comma just happens to be a very close and personal friend of mine, and i won't hesitate to back him up. the apostrophe i have mixed feelings with. even if you know all of the times to use him it's so easy to type the wrong one out of habit.
the comma, as an important mark when it comes to not only reading text, but understanding it, is one of the greatest friends one can have as a writer.
yeah, if you give it too much spotlight it'll always try to go sticky keys on your ass.
i find it's best to just pry that little asshole off the keyboard and put him in a drawer. that way i can just take him out when i need him or he's about to die of starvation.