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Damn! I can'y make up my mind......

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Damn! I can'y make up my mind......

I think that it may be time to break up with my girlfriend but i feel kinda bad for thinking about it. I like this other girl and have more fun when i am around her then if i am around my girlfriend. something that worries me is that she has a tendency to get really depressed really easy and i feel she may do something stupid. also the fact that Valentines day is just around the corner makes me feel like a jerk. When i am around my gf i don't really have these thoughts but when i think about it by myself i would rather be without her.
I know the girl that i want to get with is single and we have been friends for awhile (I just hope i am not fully in the "friend zone").



What should i do? I need the expert opinion of peoples with experience.
 
Re: Damn! I can'y make up my mind......

Been watching too much of "Just Friends"? Love that movie...

What does your heart say?
 
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I havn't listened to any part of me that makes me feel guilt in years so i don't know. I love her but i'm no longer in love wth her. ya know
 
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There will always be a time in your life to make hard decisions. Most people fail at that point in life. The answer is not clear, but your heart always gives it. Listen to your heart, it will guide you.
 
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Well my Friend Its Hard to make these decissions.

The Heart is Always picking the Opposite to you. Your heart will go on Instinct and Passion where Your Mind will Follow The "Better" choice The More Realistic one.

I Followed My Mind For awhile, It got me in trouble with a Few things. So now I've decided to Follow my Heart, There is No time for second chances In my books So If your going to do it you need to do it right and well.

If I was you, I'd figure out away (Upto you to think of) To tell my Girlfriend that I was breaking up with her, Change of Heart? I dont know.. Then You WILL HAVE to talk to this person you like And ask them If they like you and All that. If she does not Like you the same, Its not the End of The World, You weren't meant for the Girl you were with at the start so thats over. But if Its a Yes then its a Good thing and when good things happen You and People around you feel happier and better.

You most likely won't read all of that, THink im Wrong, Stupid and What not.

Thats just what I think and my Experience.

"Take a Risk, Otherwise you'll Always Be Thinking What If?"
 
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ScareCrowReturn;273416 said:
Well my Friend Its Hard to make these decissions.

The Heart is Always picking the Opposite to you. Your heart will go on Instinct and Passion where Your Mind will Follow The "Better" choice The More Realistic one.

I Followed My Mind For awhile, It got me in trouble with a Few things. So now I've decided to Follow my Heart, There is No time for second chances In my books So You If your going to do it you need to do it right and well.

If I was you, I'd figure out away (Upto you to think of) To tell my Girlfriend that I was breaking up with her, Change of Heart? I dont know.. Then You WILL HAVE to talk to this person you like And ask them If they like you and All that. If she does not Like you the same, Its not the End of The World, You weren't meant for the Girl you were with at the start so thats over. But if Its a Yes then its a Good thing and when good things happen You and People around you feel happier and better.

You most likely won't read all of that, THink im Wrong, Stupid and What not.

Thats just what I think and my Experience.

"Take a Risk, Otherwise you'll Always Be Thinking What If?"
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well, first off, dont break up befor valentines day. that would make you a total asshat. i hate valentines day with a passion but im guessing she would be extra depressed if she was alone on valentines having just broken up. so dont do that.

if you really wanna break up, i dont know a good way to do it (having only been dumped in the past and never actually starting the breakups.) i also cant tell you any method that doesnt hurt like hell. sorry.

i dont really know what you should do.
 
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DragonMaster91;273417 said:
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What? I hate people who do that. Atleast write something That I can reply too not some picture that doesn't make sense to what I said.

And Yea, For TJ I've never Broken up with someone aswell Always been on the Other end so Im not sure exactly would be the best way to break-up without doing it terrible..
 
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Your asking on gaming forums for "expert advice" on dating??
isn't that like going to pteromerhanophobia meeting and asking how to skydive?

Anyway, myself definetly not an expert, but I would not and I repeat not break up before V Day if she is easily depressed. However if you are at a point in the relationship where you feel it wont go any further, is no longer enjoyable and want to break it off because the girl you are dating "isnt the one for you" then think long and hard about the reasons why you want to break up and if it sounds reasonable in your own mind then tell her what it is you feel... if your breaking up because you want the next best thing that comes along, think about that also.

In the end no one on these forums will change your decision about what you are going to do, you have to make up your own mind (most likely you already have and are just asking for approval on your decision even if you do "feel undecided"). Keeping a relationship going that you feel is one sided is just going to hurt her and you more in the long run though.

Disregard basically all I say as I am definetly not a dating guru (dont even know why I am replying) but as I said most people asking these types of questions generally already have their answer.
 
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Do what Christ Isaac does. Every time he breaks up with someone, they throw a party to celebrate the end of the relationship. Not in a nasty way though. Like having funerals is celebrating the deceased's life, rather than saying, "Yay he's dead," or whatever.

But yeah, I'm sure if you're mature about it, and do it face to face, tell her the reasons why you want to break up (maybe not mention the other girl though), I'm sure everyone would be better off.
 
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I dunno how you can go about breaking up with her, but don't go to the other girl straight away or you'll look like, as tj says, a complete asshat.

Good luck
 
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I am with Arse, just make sure you do it after V-Day or else you look like a total twat, and also kinda see if the girl you like likes you back (Don't ask directly or else it'll be plainly obvious to her why you dumped the old one, then she will feel like you will dump her if you find a better chick, but like get one of her friends [which you can also trust] to ask her.) also, wait a few weeks (optional) before asking her out, or else you would look womanising...
 
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Not your problem if she gets easily depressed - you can't babysit the girl. Breaking up before Vday is actually better than after she's spent money on you and you've felt guilty enough to buy her something in return. But then I'm a callous person...

There's no magic to dumping someone - just do it. Don't be mean about it but don't try and pull the wool either - chances are she'll be analysing everything you did and didn't say for weeks afterwards so best not to make any of it subject to interpretation. Then if you do hook up with this other girl soon afterwards, keep it out of her face for a bit just for decency's sake.
 
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all i can say is, be honest, with both girls, but most of all, with yourself. is this really what u want?
v-day is definitely a hard time to do this. if i were u, i would try to remember what it was about ur GF that made you like her in the first place, then use v-day to try and rekindle that dying flame.
if ur feelings haven't changed, then talk it over with her. see how she feels about it, and let her know how u feel.
if u do split up, wait a little while before chasing the other girl. spend time with her, by all means, but don't rush it. see how things evolve. if you don't notice anything obvious within 3-4 weeks, then ask her
 
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i don't exactly know how we got together. we just sorta "clicked". and lately I haven't felt that "click" you get what i am trying to say?
 
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Yea, hmmm.... well, listen to your heart, it will guide you.
 
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Didn't i tell you my heart died with the rest of my "guilt-trip" voices.
 
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Your heart will make you feel guilty, it is just the way it happens...
 
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Thats why i killed it a long time ago. Guilt is not an emotion that i do well with so i killed it.
 
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*Sigh*

How do you make your tough decisions? Do you just say, "**** it, I am not going to risk anything. I am not going to get rid of my Girl friend. I don't care if I am happy or not. I would die like this, I want to, I don't like tough decisions."?
 
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