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Internet rants are fun.

Firis

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Internet rants are fun.

So, my best female friend in the world wont even talk to me anymore due to the following events:

I wouldnt do that stupid choreography dance at the nerdy cosplay thingy.
I got mega ****ed that she wasn't giving me any hugs anymore. -_-
And I asked her the question that I shall ask you guys later, and she didn't agree with my proposal and said "Your an idiiot, dont EVER mention that word again." So... I am mega ****ed, and because I love her it hurts some, but I can live without her, but I do hope we get on the same level soon (It's been nearly 9 days without even texting)

Now here is problem numbah 2:

We are trying to move, but so far we have only had one viewing in the one month its been up, we are so desperate to sell it that later this week we are getting that Saint whatever (I think it was Timithy, whichever the worker was) statue and doing that trick with him, meanwhile we are waiting on building the house until we have a confirmed buyer so that we wont be stuck with a second mortage, this move will change my life as we will be cutting back ALOT on our habits of eating, working and luxuries, plus this is the only home that I have any Concious memory of ever living in, though I have lived in others, this is the only one I have ever truly known. So because of the move, we are going to have to cut back on ALL food consumption to like kroger brand stuff for upwards too eighteen months, plus with the baby coming in December that will make us cut back even more to save cash...

Here was the question I asked my friend and now I shall ask you guys and gals:

So by self research of our family, due to my mothers ovary problems and pre-diabetic state and a few other oddball things, her risk of death in childbirth jumped from about 4% to 20% with a 37% chance of a seizure that could leave her partially paralyzed, plus the baby has a 40% chance of miscarriage anyway, so I asked her about her getting an abortion, even though she doesn't believe abortion is right (And neither do I except in rare circumstances like this) she kinda skimmed over the idea, but I know she won't even consider it long enough to let it sink in... So should I push it further on her for her safety? (Note: I asked my friend before I tried talking to my mom, so the question to her was a little different.)
 
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Well that indeed was alot of ranting.

I wouldn't press your mom, pressing it would just add to the stress. If the situation gets worse I'm sure that the doctors will advise her properly. The best thing to do would to just help her the best you can.
 
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To problem number two. In this case, I would honestly say abortion is a possibility. Still, a lot of percentage is there for the baby to be ok. As Red Fable said, the doctors will advice her. Just stick by her. It is her decision after all, she'll do the right thing :).
 
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Wait, I kind of Skim readed that but did you get her Knocked up? Or did someone else?

Are you the one who was talking about his "Girl Issue" Before aswell? Or was that.. "L"? I get you guys mixed up so much.
 
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Cutting back isn't the end of the world - it'll actually do you a lot of good in the long run because you will learn the value of things and, hopefully, the ability to prioritise your spending habits. I spent almost my entire life until I met Steve having little to no money and it hasn't done me a scrap of harm - or my kid. Valuable lessons to be learnt in times of having to tighten ones belt.

You really need to back off from your mum once telling her how you feel about it. Pregnancy when things are fine is hard enough without emotional blackmail, however unintentional it may be, making you feel worse about decisions you are making. The doctors will know what they are doing and your mother will no doubt already feel pressured enough as it is with everything else going on without having to deal with the constant barrage of objections and persuasions from family members. In a non-manipulative manner, explain how you feel and your concerns but also support her decision whatever it is - she will need that from every family member.

Plus time is marching on and abortion gets more complicated and more horrific as the weeks go by. And it comes with its own damaging effects, not least on the mind. What might seem a sensible "quick fix" option to everyone now could have a lasting effect on your mother for years to come. There's much more to abortion than simply "sorting the problem" - if you are still in research mode, look into abortion thoroughly because it's not at all pleasant, not at all nice and you need to really understand what it is you are trying to convince your mother of.
 
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Abortion later on is so horrible omg! I hate it and wish it kewd be outlawed in my mind but in reality there sometimes is no other choice and I accept that. To many people on Earth anyways. I hope your Mom finds a solution to her dilemna and you shewd tell your gf is a betch and to be more understanding.
 
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Miscarriages suck - sorry to hear that :(
 
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Well, if you are sad about it, sorry for the bad news.
If you were anything like me you would say this:
Firis;296333 said:
UPDATE: Girl and me are semi-fine now, weaker relationship though... Baby was very gladly... A miscarriage!!!!!!:D
Of course I hate my brother and sister, and wish they would die and burn in hell, and was happy about the third child dying inside of moms stomach.
 
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^Do you think that misquote is a little inappropriate, perhaps?