My Fault?

[ScareCrowReturn]

My Fault?

I think Alot.. or maybe just me.. But alot of Guys/Girls get this and I want to talk abou tit because I hate feeling like this.

Whenever you like someone you feel Invicible, you feel like you can do anything, you feel nothing else matters. When you get so close.. And then it all falls apart and you wonder where it went wrong.. And I always seem to blame myself no matter what.

example:

Liked this girl for about 6 months, She liked me, We got along very well, She got scared, she backed out and nothing happened.. I was Sad and Angry at myself.. I always blame myself.. Even though I know i did what i did at the time and it was good enough because we went so far but then she backed out.. but i still now feel like it was My fault..

If you have bothered to read all of this well Thank you.. What do you think when it happens?

I have moved on.. We sort of talk.. not as much. But still that crappy feeling in my gut.

 

[ScareCrowReturn]

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Haha! I said tit! (At the start.. Im not going to change it.. gives some humour to it)

 

[topmen]

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Whenever you like someone you feel Invicible, you feel like you can do anything, you feel nothing else matters. When you get so close.. And then it all falls apart and you wonder where it went wrong.. And I always seem to blame myself no matter what.

same here it always ends like that
but now im hopeless....
ive been loving a girl for 2 years now.... she is my best friend , and i dont wanna ruin our friendship by telling her.... im a wussy

 

[ScareCrowReturn]

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Well that is a smart move in some ways.. but then if you DO want to make things go further you need to talk to her about it i guess..

 

[Arseface]

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I liked this girl for a bit now, wrote her a song and everything. Realised nothing was gonna happen so I took my foot off the gas, didn't talk to her for about a week and now I think she likes me

Either that or it's just wishful thinking.

 

[hobbes_pwn]

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I just got dumped a few days ago Ny a girl i knew since kindergarden.. We only went out for 2 weeks?? I just laught at it best treatment.. Stuff happens. When i got the Greeting Beating (At my high school when you came ino the school the year 10's by tradition wwould beat you for 10 seconds.) I heard people say "SUCK IT UP PRINNCESS" and when ever i feel sad, i just pretend someone is saying that to me trust me it works. When i was diagnosed with Visual Snow i was really depressed, took tablets to control, but that didn't work my medication was those 3 words. And now im over happy.:w00t::w00t::w00t::w00t:

 

[Angelo Credo]

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I know the feeling, actually.

Here's my experience: I met this girl at college, we hit it off very well, exactly the same tastes in music, style, games, same personality and so on, we got very close, very fast, I'll tell you the truth, at the time of meeting her I wasn't interested in a relationship, but the more I got to know her, well, the more I actually liked her, and it developed from there, like you, I felt on top of the bloody world, invincible, then, after a weekend where she invited me round, she just entirely stopped talking to me, ignoring me whenever I saw her.

Now, I did nothing wrong during that weekend, I was never too forward, I was, to coin a phrase, the perfect gentleman.

For weeks, it baffled me, but it's happened before, and here's the secret, in your entire life, in the course of the time that you meet people you become romantically interested in, you will never do anything wrong, providing that you're a gentleman about things, it's not your fault, they just make it out to be your fault, because they never offer a damn explanation, it's a hard thing to get over, yes, but you'll really never do anything wrong.

At least, that's what I've found from looking back.

And yes, we still talk, just not as much, and I still haven't gotten over it, I still feel like crap, but I know for a fact that I did nothing wrong, because I went over every day again and again in my head.

Hope I helped.

 

[.Hood]

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Alright scarecrow the feeling your getting like its your fault is normal for all guys when things go bad relashionship wise we feel like we have to be able to controll the situation or we feel insecure yes ladies insecure, it happens you really liked her I can see that and for things to go so well and then just blow up gives an over whelming feeling that u F'd it all up some how I have blamed mself like this before and to be honest if you have moved past this good thats the best thing to do and if you havn't trust me its the better thing lifes to short to dwell on the past and in a more straight forward way if lifes got you on your knees give it the finger and get up! no its not easy yes it sucks balls and I mean no offence if its taken that way but there is bigger and better things so do your self a favor and find a new one live your life to the fullest and don't look back and who knows girls love confidence so you not seeming to be broken over it(not sayin ignore her and be a dick) could bring her around but yeah thats my DR Phil moment for the day hope it helps man

 

[Velez]

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Can't relate but if you guys don't want to hurt anymore, you can sell your souls to me. I take hearts too.

 

[Angelo Credo]

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^ The only problem with that prospect is this.

What souls? :lol:

 

[Velez]

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The souls you all obviously have. Just sign the contract...