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ssjcb1186

ssjcb1186

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What happened?

I tried to apologize but it blew up in my face...

I went to Friendly's with 2 of my best friends, R and C, about a month ago and I didn't pay for any of the meal, just the tip because I had cash. This wasn't on purpose, but it wasn't on accident...completely. He (R) said he would pay for it and I would get the tip, I offered to pay more, but it would have been wierd to split the bill with 2 debit cards. A while after, another best friend, B, told me that R was upset by it because he spends his money on everyone. I have the same problem because my C and B don't have jobs which means they don't have money.

I knew how he felt, so last night I apologized to R. However, my honesty led me to tell him who told me, B. Apparently no one can keep whatever he vents about between him and the person(people) he tells. He's sick of it. He starts threatening to tell everyone what everyone else thinks about everyone else. He proceeded to tell me that C and B think I'm b!tchy and that C doesn't really like B, which is a big deal if you knew the history. I don't particularly care about any of this because we all get sick of each other sometimes.

He then decides to take a break from all of us. He leaves a status on Facebook that is mean after me writing "Sometimes it's not even worth having friends...but then I'd be lonely, and I'm cranky when I'm lonely" or something along those lines. After reading his status, I just decide to delete my facebook because I don't even do anything on it anyway. I also proceed to block and delete him from my AIM.

R just had a temper tantrum and is acting like a child in my opinion. He said he's going to revert back to how he used to be (which is a very mean, rude, and nasty person). I did not become friends with this person though, so if he's going to go through this change, I don't want anything to do with him. I don't think I did the most mature thing either, and I know that's what they're going to think as well, but they can still text me if any of them need to talk to me. I know C is going to side with R and B stays behind me in everything.

I'm not going to talk to him for a while, or until he contacts me, and I'm going to leave C alone because I know she's going to be aggravated that it happened and probably blame the whole thing on me which is not going to go over well with me if I'm correct. I'm just assuming this is going to happen so, it's all open. I don't know how to unblock a deleted friend on AIM, but I think I remember his actual screen name. I'm not going to reactivate my Facebook account because there's truly nothing to do on it. I will if you want me to tell you what his status is/was if you want.

I just don't know what to do and I know I was wrong for outing B but it wasn't even a big deal and I thought R wouldn't care...clearly I was wrong. B doesn't even care that I told him so that's okay. I just don't want to reach out because I know he's just going to slap my hand and say "no" in the meanest and harshest way he can. I guess I can update what happens with the four of us (R, B, C, and I). I just need help, I have absolutely no idea what happened here and would like to know.
 
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I think you did the right thing attempting to apologize, it seems to me R just overreacted. If it doesn't bother you, continue to cut him out. If it does, the try to explain and if he slaps your hand you slap his back!
 
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Yeah, if R is gonna be a little ***** like that, it's not worth it. Also, C has nothing to do with that, so if she's gonna be a ***** too and blank you, again, not worth it.
 
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so, I was right. B doesn't care and is not mad at me.

I understand where you're coming from but the four of us are very close. This friendship is not over, it's just on hold right now until further notice. The only real issue for me R. We've had the closest yet bumpiest relationship out of anyone else. It's kind of a fight with him at times, yet it just works. I don't want it to end, but if he/they are going to push me away they'd better not be upset if I just walk away completely.

I have a feeling that this is all going to blow over eventually...probably by the end of the this week or the next. This sort of stuff happens occasionally. However, R tends to stick to his word, so it's most likely going to be a month.

I'm not an aggressive person anyway, even me reaching out is out of my comfort zone, and I will not attack back if provoked. I'll try not to at least.

I have a sneaking suspicion that C is going to be genuinely mad at me for blabbing. I kind of know that's she's going to blame all this on me. I'm not certain though. Should I speak to her, try to apologize or whatever to her? I think that's my next step.

Adding to that, I don't think talking about me behind my back is something to excuse. I don't think we should blaming or attacking the person trying to mend this whole thing.

Remember, none of this has happened and I'm not sure what the outcome will be with whatever I do, they're very unpredictable like that >)
 
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Evan;405203 said:
^What? None of this has happened? What do you mean?
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Meaning I haven't reached out to anyone but B. I don't know how C feels or reacted to the whole thing. I'm make assumptions on what will happen if I do x, y, z.
 
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Screw them all if R threw a tantrum over something as meaningless as he did and the others actually played along.
 
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ugh, it's not that simple. We're way too close to each other to let something like this to separate us forever. I guess I'm really asking if I should try to fix it or not.

I think I"m making excuses for inexcusable behavior, but they're too much a part of my life. I'd like to try and fix it but when I try to do that it normally just gets worse.

My worst fear is that he stays this way, and he's normally good on his threats. So if he becomes the person he was 5 years ago, then I'm not going to have anything to do with him. If C decides to blame me for everything, then I don't want her in my life either. (I don't know if I completely believe that, but you get the point) B has my back/forgave/doesn't care about the situation. Although my previous question has yet to be answered:
Should I contact/apologize to C for what's happened?

Is there anything I possibly need to clarify in anything I've said?
 
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^I think that you should repeat the first two and a half paragraphs in that post to them.
 
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R's lucky I don't live near you, I'd find him and beat him for being such a whiny little b*tch, then tell him to get the hell over it.
 
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Well. i know what R's fate would be confined to if it was my problem.
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But that's just me. I'd recommend playing along with the maggot. Be sure to get in his mind that you still want to be friends, but also get him the idea that your not going to deal with his idiocy and child-like behavior.
 
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