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KaveX

KaveX

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Warning: This post is pretty personal and might be explicit. Depends on how I feel.

Okay, heres the lowdown.. I went to visit my Dad for Christmas. I was having a great time.. I called my girlfriend every night, to talk since we had a strong relationship for two years now. Well today while I was talking to her and she tells me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore and shouldn't be with me.. I'm like WTF!! I delve deeper into the issue and she told me that she had cheated on me with a guy I know (And sometimes hang out with). I've never cheated, even so much as look at another girl.. I loved her that much.

Where does she go off cheating on me randomly? It was even ON CHRISTMAS DAY! That is BY FAR the best christmas present I've ever gotten. I just recently went to the mall and got her a $400 Ring and $150 worth of Sinful shirts for her ( Which is about 70 bucks apiece ). Its going back.

I still Love her, and now she's hanging with that dude, and he's definitely dead.

Now.. I'm wondering what to do now.. I just don't know..

P.S. - If this thread is retarded or w.e.. I am a bit drunk.
 
This is my suggestion: move on. Seriously, it might work chasing her around trying to get her back but if it fails you'll be even more upset and everything, so I say just move on and forget about her.
 
KaveX said:
Warning: This post is pretty personal and might be explicit. Depends on how I feel.

Okay, heres the lowdown.. I went to visit my Dad for Christmas. I was having a great time.. I called my girlfriend every night, to talk since we had a strong relationship for two years now. Well today while I was talking to her and she tells me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore and shouldn't be with me.. I'm like WTF!! I delve deeper into the issue and she told me that she had cheated on me with a guy I know (And sometimes hang out with). I've never cheated, even so much as look at another girl.. I loved her that much.

Where does she go off cheating on me randomly? It was even ON CHRISTMAS DAY! That is BY FAR the best christmas present I've ever gotten. I just recently went to the mall and got her a $400 Ring and $150 worth of Sinful shirts for her ( Which is about 70 bucks apiece ). Its going back.

I still Love her, and now she's hanging with that dude, and he's definitely dead.

Now.. I'm wondering what to do now.. I just don't know..

P.S. - If this thread is retarded or w.e.. I am a bit drunk.
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I have one question for you, my friend:

Have you DTB'd yet?

There are no real surprises here, that's what young girls do, use you until they find someone else. You shouldn't feel bad about it-
I think you should be happy! You just saved at least $550.

Another thing...why were you spending $550 on her anyway? I don't know who you're dating..but I would wager she didn't spend anywhere even close to that amount on you.

I wouldn't get too mad at the guy, don't try and fight him or anything, because it's not his fault.

He's not the one who cheated on you, the whore you're dating is.

You're probably mad at him now, but I guarantee you you'll feel alot better if you just leave him alone and tell her it's over.

Give her what she wants and you'll be amazed at how great you feel. Plus, if he's the kind of guy I think he is, he'll DTB as soon as he's gotten enough sex out of her and then you can be buddies again, regardless of the little game that slut tried to initiate.

So, main thing is, bros before hos.

If you can save a friendship and get rid of some unneeded baggage in the process, rejoice!

I guarantee you next Christmas you'll be ten times happier than you were this year, with a drink in one hand and a cigarette in the other and a cute young girl on your lap.

Meanwhile, your ex will be crying on the couch, getting fat, and looking to see if she's still got your number. (Even though you will almost certainly hang up the phone as soon as you realize who it is.)
 
DarkONI said:
Why the dude has to die? Blame the girl.
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Don't you know? Being sexy is a crime. You have the right to kill someone brutally, when he is really atractive, even though the people that leave you for him are the ones that had done wrong. Or was it when you are in a war with that person, and he killed half the people you loved?

...

Neh. It must be the first one.

And on ''What to do'', you should just JOIN THE DARK SIDE.
 
F**k her. She isn't worth getting back, I've had this type before, except she wanted to stay with me after cheating on me.Thats walking papers, no second chances cause they'll do it again.
 
KaveX said:
Warning: This post is pretty personal and might be explicit. Depends on how I feel.

Okay, heres the lowdown.. I went to visit my Dad for Christmas. I was having a great time.. I called my girlfriend every night, to talk since we had a strong relationship for two years now. Well today while I was talking to her and she tells me she doesn't know if she loves me anymore and shouldn't be with me.. I'm like WTF!! I delve deeper into the issue and she told me that she had cheated on me with a guy I know (And sometimes hang out with). I've never cheated, even so much as look at another girl.. I loved her that much.

Where does she go off cheating on me randomly? It was even ON CHRISTMAS DAY! That is BY FAR the best christmas present I've ever gotten. I just recently went to the mall and got her a $400 Ring and $150 worth of Sinful shirts for her ( Which is about 70 bucks apiece ). Its going back.

I still Love her, and now she's hanging with that dude, and he's definitely dead.

Now.. I'm wondering what to do now.. I just don't know..

P.S. - If this thread is retarded or w.e.. I am a bit drunk.
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Trevor, slow it down. Clearly you're not thinking this through rationally and aren't sure of what to do, so I would advise not jumping the gun and doing anything to the guy or to her for that matter should you happen to get angrier.

There's the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater".. I don't believe that to be true, not for everyone that is. She's young, and she doesn't seem entirely sure of what it is she really wants.. however regardless of her being unsure, she broke your trust, and attempting to repair what's happened to your relationship now could take a long time (since she doesn't know if she loves you anymore). Which would likely involve unneeded drama, frustrations, headaches, stress, and possibly some sleepless nights for you since you still love her so much and her still being with another guy.

From my personal experience, I'd move on and find someone else (there's plenty other women out there), rather than run the risk of trying to repair the relationship with someone who cheated on me or to convince them to love me again (even though they probably truly didn't), only to end up making it much worse for me. Moving on can be hard and I know how it feels, but it's better than potentially making things worse and more stressful for you. And in the end you'll feel better, especially if you manage to find someone who truly loves you as much as you love them.

I hope that helps man.
 
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Gikoku Harakami said:
From my personal experience, I'd move on and find someone else (there's plenty other women out there), rather than run the risk of trying to repair the relationship with someone who cheated on me or to convince them to love me again (even though they probably truly didn't), only to end up making it much worse for me. Moving on can be hard and I know how it feels, but it's better than potentially making things worse and more stressful for you.
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I couldn't agree more. However, there are two things I'd like to add:

You're obviously feeling a great deal of sadness and depression right now. I recommend replacing those feelings with anger or hatred toward her. Tell her off, dump her ass, and burn the bridge until there's nothing left. Keep reminding yourself that she turned out to be nothing more than a cheating bitch, and eventually you shouldn't want her anymore.

The second thing I'd like to say is that if she ends up staying with the guy she cheated on you with, take solace in the fact that there's no way in hell that relationship will last. Relationships that are built on nothing but meaningless and emotionless sex are doomed from the start, and when it gets destroyed in a fiery explosion, she will realize the colossal mistake she made, and she will be as miserable as you used to be.
 
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AMON'S PR0 GUIDE TO BEING A MAN

1. Kidnap her
2. Get some razor wire, make a noose out of it
3. Put her head through the noose
4. Superglue her hands to her face
5. Wait for glue to dry. Beating her while waiting for this is optional.
6. Kick her off the chair / small ledge / box / whatever she's standing on
7. It will now look like she got so scared of you that she ripped off her own head.
8. You are now The Boss.
9. ????
10. Profit!
_______________________________________________

However, if you are for whatever reason opposed to murder, then I suggest that you hire me to do it.
1-800-LOLMURDER
 
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I keep seeing Pictures of these two. Im ready to snap this guy in half..

My adrenaline just keeps skyrocketing. I was so fueled, I was like literally bouncing out of my seat. It was almost as bad as Tom Hanks hand in Saving Private Ryan.
 
Leave the guy. Has nothing to do with him. He isn't going to say no, is he?

If she says she doesn't love you and she cheated on you... It's not looking good.
 
I believe in Once a cheater, always a cheater. I don't care what others say about it, I've had my share of girls like that. Hell, some of my female friends are like that.

Just move on.

And if you ever want to take revenge, I'm sure there's a lot of room in my trunk.

Anyway, maybe this song will help you out:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRAGGvM31P4&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Mainly the last part.
 
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L0ki said:
I believe in Once a cheater, always a cheater. I don't care what others say about it, I've had my share of girls like that. Hell, some of my female friends are like that.

Just move on.

And if you ever want to take revenge, I'm sure there's a lot of room in my trunk.

Anyway, maybe this song will help you out:

http: src="http://projectego.net/forums/images/smilies/01/hmm.gif" _mce_src="http://projectego.net/forums/images/smilies/01/hmm.gif">/www.youtube.com/watch?v=sRAGGvM31P4&feature=youtube_gdata_player

Mainly the last part.
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I agree with all of that..except I have a different suggestion for a 'getting-over-her' song:

Cee Lo Green
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pc0mxOXbWIU
 
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Hey Trev, Is that that Dani chick? You said your threads personal, so I figured I'd used personal names, if thats alright?

In my opinion, break up, without a doubt.

"Im not gonna say, there's plenty more fish in the sea. I'm not going to say if you love her, let her go. And I'm not going to bombard you with clichés. But what I will say is this, It's not the end of the world."
 
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