She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

[Firis]

She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

So, I am in a problem, well it is more like a blessing with a curse. I have three girls after me basically: So I won't name: Girl 1 is a year younger than me, she is openly loving of me, but I have little interest in her and she is not my type at all. Girl 2 drops subtle hints sometimes as being attached to me, not necessarily romantically, just attached and she is semi compatible with me. Girl 3 I heard rumors she liked me, from Girl 2 and a couple other people, and we talked and we have a good time, then she talks to my Ex, and now she barely talks to me and she seems uninterested in me, and as I know, my Ex is a liar, but she is a very smooth talker and can very easily turn things around on you so I dare not intervene and it isn't heartbreak to me anyway.

On another note: I do have one girl I am interested in, nearly two year long distance friendship, and we innocently flirt alot, she is in New Orleans and lower middle class (So she can't visit) however so it isn't a choice. And I have a friend here who I don't so much love, more like lust, problem is he is straight and Christian, liberal Christian but still Christian.


So: Paragraph 1: What should I do with that Trifecta?
Paragraph 2: How can I make the long distance relationship a little closer without putting too much into in case it is "like" and not "love" and I am pretty sure I shouldn't mess with my guy friend, but what is the Gay/Bi community on the forum say about this?

 

[cheezMcNASTY]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

as far as paragraph 1, only time will tell. if you aren't into girl 1 then take her off your list. you can't expect her to change for you.
girl 2 is probably your best option, that's the one i would go for. 3 would need to show some real interest when i talked to her to even be considered an option. you never want to go on a rumor since there's a high chance for embarrassment.

apart from talking to a long-distance "friend" nonstop, the only thing you can do to make it closer is visit yourself. if neither of you can pull that off, it's over before it even begun.

 

[untuva]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Ah reminds me of highschool... And really, there are Christian gay people(even ones having casual sex) too so try bringing the topic subtly up.

And on the long distance relationship Id recommend talking about it with the other half. Keep in touch only when seeing each other or more close communication when separated. Phone, Skype, webcam; whatever suits you two.

Dont date your Ex's friends. Ever. It brings drama.

 

[Sabbath]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Drop the 1st girl, its not worth the worry if your only in it because you wanted to take the chance (Life isn't a romance movie ), girl 2 sounds like the best option she has a good chance of being a good relationship. If girl 3 is your choice make sure she knows your ex. words are all lies, but make sure your ex has said something as it'd be rather embarrassing to go on about how your ex lied when she never lied at all.

Long distance relationships can work if you really try to make it work, web cam, visits, those things.

 

[Firis]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Thanks guys, cleared my mind a little and took in the advice. +rep for you all.

Dont date your Ex's friends. Ever. It brings drama.

They weren't friends until my Ex saw me hanging with her though. :/

 

[Zarkes]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

"and shes from the lower middle class" lol it makes it sound all strange and demeaning .

 

[Firis]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

"and shes from the lower middle class" lol it makes it sound all strange and demeaning .

I edited it later to make sure it made the money point, your right that does come off as an insult eh? Hehe.

 

[Sabbath]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Thanks guys, cleared my mind a little and took in the advice. +rep for you all.





They weren't friends until my Ex saw me hanging with her though. :/

No offense but your ex sounds like a ***** =/

 

[Necromancer]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

I'd keep Girl 1 in case things don't work out with 2 or 3. Keep Girl 2 close, and try to get some more not-so-subtle hints from here that she likes you, but don't make it a top priority. Try talking to Girl 3 some more, initiate a few conversation if she isn't going to. Try to figure out a little of what your ex told her too, and clarify some of the BS.

I would say that both the girl in New Orleans and your guy friend are lost causes. Long distance relationships never work out, and you can't exactly just change someone's sexual orientation, as I'm sure you're fully aware. You're much more likely to have success with the three aforementioned girls, in the pursuit and the relationship.

 

[Arseface]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Three girls after you? Milk it for all it's worth. Take what you want from that, but don't screw it up.

EDIT: Wait, what's the title about?

 

[Firis]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

EDIT: Wait, what's the title about?

I was listening to a song and for some reason the lyric sounded relevant.

Thanks for the Opinions guys, more rep. I was thinking Arseface's idea this whole time as I don't really want a relationship, but I can smooth it out and not be selfish I guess.

 

[droded]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

My opinion is to just chill out and let the girls come to you.

If it can work out for me, it can work out for anyone.

 

[Tsuyu]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Foursome, baby!

 

[Noctus]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Note to male teenagers, don't date girls younger than you. It ends in chaos due to contrasts in maturity.

I'd date none of them until you're sure or you have similar feelings. Don't just date for the sake of it or because she loves you, that's leading them on - and that is cruel.

 

[Tsuyu]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Teenage girls can't be in love, period. They may think they are, but they are not.

 

[Angel]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Honestly? I wouldn't bother with any of them, male or female, and just enjoy being yourself for a while. What's the rush to be in a relationship anyway?

 

[Silent420]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

^For Rizil.

Relationships can be a good thing, but they require alot of work and stress.

 

[Skotekal]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Single is how I roll. And will probably always be how I roll.

 

[cheezMcNASTY]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

Single is how I roll. And will probably always be how I roll.

yes, but when these are combined

Spoiler

you get this

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notice how in figure 2 one wheel seems to be doing all the work and the other wheel seems to just be dragging along :lol:

 

[Firis]

Re: She comes on like a crippled plaything... Her spine is just a string.

You also get hell, I will always be single, if not single then never in a commited relationship, my personality is nearly incompatible.