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Zjuggernaut

Zjuggernaut

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Now I feel a bit weird talking to a bunch of people on the internet about this but here I go.

About a year ago, I met a girl at a friends party. We talked and all that and eventually ended up having sex. (Most awkward sentence I've ever posted, honestly) About a few weeks after that, I saw her again at another friends party and we didn't have sex but did other stuff. We didn't speak at all since then.

Now, I want to the Reading festival about 2 weeks ago and she was there as well. We talked for ages in the night (nothing happened) and I kinda realised that I liked this girl.

The problem is, I want to ask her out, meet up, whatever but how do I do it without it looking like I just want sex off her? After all, It's been a year and she might think it's a bit weird that I'm asking now.

I SUCK.
 
Zjuggernaut said:
The problem is, I want to ask her out, meet up, whatever but how do I do it without it looking like I just want sex off her? After all, It's been a year and she might think it's a bit weird that I'm asking now.
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Just act normal. Simply ask her if she wants to hang out sometime and then plan a meet up, that way you two can continue to get to know each other better platonically without coming off as a sex-starved maniac. You don't have to always do physical meet ups either, you can easily just text/IM/facebook or whatever for more convenience. Then build it up from there, when things feel more comfortable between you two you can then try telling her how you feel (just be honest). But take it a bit slow and don't rush things. Obviously you'll want to refrain from bringing up the time you nailed her to avoid any awkward situations.
 
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TRA Rotid said:
She obv likes you as well. It may sound weird, but women actually like men the same way we like them... so yeah. Go for it.
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But umm, my first post was a silly rushed one with no effort really..
Do you like her because you have seen her naked and have experienced things with her? And you know that you can get it again but want to try and make it last? but your brain makes out to you that you want a relationship but infact deep down sex is only what you want? And once you get in the relationship it doesn't seem to feel and go as the way you felt it would?

That happened to me once, ended badly, I advise you to think it over, but don't over think, because that is also what I do and because of that I haven't been in a healthy/longish relationship for about 2 years. Forever alone..

So if you do go ahead with this, please tell me how it goes, and what you do, im interested.. And pics or it didn't happen

I have issues, so what, wanna fight about it???
 
Gikoku said:
Obviously you'll want to refrain from bringing up the time you nailed her to avoid any awkward situations.
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Best if I remember that part. Don't want to give her a creepy look and go "Hehehe I've been inside of you."

ScareCrowReturn said:
And you know that you can get it again but want to try and make it last? but your brain makes out to you that you want a relationship but infact deep down sex is only what you want? And once you get in the relationship it doesn't seem to feel and go as the way you felt it would?
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I genuinely feel something for her. It's not just sexual. She's really great to be around too.
 
Dark Intellect said:
Do the mating dance of your people and offer her the dead body of the other alpha male.
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I think it's pretty clear that he's already done both those things seeing as he's already had sex with her. Bravo Juggy. :thumbsup:

I don't think you have anything to worry about. You like her so without any fault you obviously wish to have sex with her again and many times after that. And if she likes you, she most definitely wants those things too. So go for it, have fun and be safe.
 
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Shut up kaiba :P, more seriously - be honest, say you've come to like her and would like to try things out, worst comes to worst she doesnt feel the same (been there) but atleast then you have a resolution and wont have it on your mind for ages on whether you should or shouldnt (been their too and this is the worst of the 2 I believe)
 
Maybe she just wants to use you for sex...?
 
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Zjuggernaut said:
The problem is, I want to ask her out, meet up, whatever but how do I do it without it looking like I just want sex off her?
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You had sex with her once, met with her multiple times and didn't let it lead to sex, and you're worried about people thinking you just want sex? You've done the very opposite so far, and besides that, why do you care what they think? It's what she and you think that matters the most.

Just tell her how you feel.
 
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