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How Am I Suppose to Tell Him?

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How Am I Suppose to Tell Him?

I don't know but I feel pretty pathetic asking this on here but here it goes. =\

Well I've been bisexual after my girlfriend broke with me and my best friend since 1st grade doesn't know. He's always been the tough guy and was always into sports which is like the opposite of me If you don't count skating a sport.

But Anyway I just feel like i'm lying to him when I don't tell him that I'm bisexual since I think it would make our friendship weird but at the same time I feel bad for keeping this from him... I'm afraid of his reaction and I just want to ask since the kind of person he is I don't think he really likes guys liking other guys and epically to be best friends with one.

Should I tell him or not?
 
Re: How Am I Suppose to Tell Him?

Think it through, before you tell him, start off asking him his views on that sorta thing, then a few weeks or a month or so later tell him (Assuming he was fien with Bi's) thats how I told my best friend.
 
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Everyone in my town is homophobic. Although I hide it pretty well, everyone throws 'fag' and 'queer' around, etc. Except for the girls. They love us. <3

Anyhow, to be honest, if he can't accept you for who you are, then you shouldn't be friends with them.

"If they matter, they won't mind. If they mind, they don't matter."
 
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^What qoute is that... It is familiar... Also, why do women love that so much lol, not to be rude or whatever but I never got that... is it comfort? Like comfort about the sex thang?
 
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Firis;337596 said:
^What qoute is that... It is familiar... Also, why do women love that so much lol, not to be rude or whatever but I never got that... is it comfort? Like comfort about the sex thang?
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No clue. I guess it's similar to the whole 'guys like lesbians' thing in that, they like watching gay porn? I don't really know.
 
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Is it really vital to your friendship for him to know? Think about it. You are not "sneaking around" with it, so to speak. You have no obligation to tell everyone you know about it and should not feel bad for "hiding" it at all.
 
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I honestly think this is one of those things where what he doesnt know can't hurt him.
 
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If you tell him, You tell him.

If you dont tell him, You dont.

Read between the lines.

I dont really understand the whole "Bisexual" thing.. I mean.. If you like a guy, like like him, then you have homsexual feelings for him, which means you are homosexual.

If you like like a girl, then you have heterosexual feelings for her.

Because i am sure you cant LIKE LIKE 2 people at the sametime with different sex's.. buuuut.. thats just me.
 
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Just like you can like two different girls at the same time, a bisexual can like two persons of different sex at the same time.

Its not rocket science or nuffin'.

Anyway: As I was saying there is a social pressure on gay people, making them forced to "come out" and its just ridicilous. You're not obligated to spill your guts at all. If you don't feel 100% comfortable with it, don't do it because to be frank, it is none of their damn business anyhow!
 
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I think its because I've never Liked 2 girls at the sametime.. So i think when I do experience, which i doubt I will, then I will understand... but until then.. Yeah......!
 
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ScareCrowReturn;337652 said:
I think its because I've never Liked 2 girls at the sametime.. So i think when I do experience, which i doubt I will, then I will understand... but until then.. Yeah......!
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You misunderstand, he means that Bisexuals can be attracted to people from both sexes at the same time without having any emotional attachment.
 
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Tiamatria;337597 said:
No clue. I guess it's similar to the whole 'guys like lesbians' thing in that, they like watching gay porn? I don't really know.
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I don't really care about 2 girls having sex.It's not a fantasy of mine, nor has it ever been or will ever be, I mean, it's like going to a party where everyone hates you.
 
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Mr.Blank;337681 said:
I don't really care about 2 girls having sex.It's not a fantasy of mine, nor has it ever been or will ever be, I mean, it's like going to a party where everyone hates you.
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It isn't so much the sexual part once again, it's how Lesbians typically act..?
 
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I say to think it through... If you tell him, he may tell lots'a of other people and they will do bad things to you...

Like bully you xd
 
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Daemon300;337736 said:
I say to think it through... If you tell him, he may tell lots'a of other people and they will do bad things to you...

Like bully you xd
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This isn't middle school. you don't get bullied in my high school.
 
Re: How Am I Suppose to Tell Him?

This is highly unrelated, how is castle crashers?
I almost bought it, I might buy it after my birthday in a few weeks.

As for the Bi, I say either my advice if NEEDED, but Tsuyu has a great point.
 
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Personally, I would tell him. I don't keep anything at all from my close friends, but maybe that's just me.

Tiamatria;337594 said:
Everyone in my town is homophobic.
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Move to California, man! It's easily accepted down here, at least in my area (I'm about and hour drive from SF, maybe that's it lol).
 
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Tiamatria;337594 said:
Everyone in my town is homophobic. Although I hide it pretty well, everyone throws 'fag' and 'queer' around, etc. Except for the girls. They love us. <3
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That's because they know you aren't gonna do anything... I just got a very unchristian thought in my mind.
 
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