Re: Involunteerly being volunteered...grrr
Children were invented for free labor. Seriously, that's the only reason people ever spawn the ungrateful little hellions.
It's possible, that if you had talked to her about your plans ahead of time and she knew you were doing something, that she was being rude.
Otherwise, it's the privelige of being a parent. Suck it up.
(Yes, indeed, I am being sarcastic. But seriously, getting dragooned into helping family and family's friends into moving and **** is a part of life. I had to help my brother's girlfriend move, I had to shovel my grandma out of the snow and take her to her dentist appointment, I had to take my cousin's kids home from the hospital while she gave birth to her next one (okay, I volunteered for that one, but still). It's the kinda thing you do, even when they aren't people who're actually related to you. And yes, you even get volunteered when you're no longer a minor.
Want it real bad? Join the military. You'll get volunteered for plenty of ****.)