Love?

[Cobalt Gamer]

Love?

Ok, how many people on this forum believe in true love? and how many of those people would like to have a little conversation about why it exists and is present everywhere? Because personally, I think true love is bollox, well not totally bollox. I do believe in true love, I'm not trying to say it's not real, what I am saying is that if your in a relationship right now, you're probably in love with them and they defiantly aren't your true love. I once thought I was in love, I also thought she was my true love, she said so many things like "I will always be with you, your my one true love, I will never leave you, don't ever leave me coz I would never leave you ect ect" well a year later the ***** ****s off with some new twat who is much less attractive then me. and now she's 'in love' with him, and he's her 'true love' it's pretty funny that, if I could tell him the things she whispered to me and the amount of times we ****ed and the fact he'll never reach my tally bar, also that I made sure to wreck that place before she left, he'd feel abit uneasy, the best part is, she's told him she's a virgin who is waiting til she's sixteen haha!! I can't wait til he witnesses that bucket for the first time, I want a video tape to be quit honest. Anyway, True love is bollox and only 5 in 6 billion people find it, so anyone dissagree?

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[pantsontheground]

Re: Love?

tl;dr yes I believe in it

 

[Cobalt Gamer]

Re: Love?

tl;dr yes I believe in it

That's it, that's your argument as to why true love exists? becuase you believe in it? well going on that I suppose all religions are real too, I believe I am god therefore I am? Sweet.

 

[pantsontheground]

Re: Love?

If you deny the existence of beauty, then you will live a lonely life.

~pantsontheground

 

[Cobalt Gamer]

Re: Love?

I'm not denying it's existence, all I's saying is that no-one on this forum will feel it, becuase only 6 in 6 billion people will ever feel it. It's rarer then catching a bulbasour if you chose a charmander.

 

[pantsontheground]

Re: Love?

I'm not denying it's existence, all I's saying is that no-one on this forum will feel it, becuase only 6 in 6 billion people will ever feel it. It's rarer then catching a bulbasour if you chose a charmander.

Then I'm a revolution, aren't I?

 

[Cobalt Gamer]

Re: Love?

Then I'm a revolution, aren't I?

Not really, because I highly doubt you feel TRUE love, because, it's not possible because somewhere down the line that 'true love' of your's will leave you, it's inevitable, nothing lasts forever.

 

[Arseface]

Re: Love?

You have to define "true love". If you're talking about everyone having one person on earth that they're "meant" to be with, then no.

If you're talking about just an immense feeling of love towards another human being, then of course.

Scientifically speaking, there's probably a set of parametres which would define someone who you would feel this for, and there are probably hundreds of thousands of people who match that for each person.

 

[pantsontheground]

Re: Love?

Not really, because I highly doubt you feel TRUE love, because, it's not possible because somewhere down the line that 'true love' of your's will leave you, it's inevitable, nothing lasts forever.

You have a point there. However, don't you believe that some people find true love, even for a fleeting moment?

 

[Cobalt Gamer]

Re: Love?

You have to define "true love". If you're talking about everyone having one person on earth that they're "meant" to be with, then no.

If you're talking about just an immense feeling of love towards another human being, then of course.

Scientifically speaking, there's probably a set of parametres which would define someone who you would feel this for, and there are probably hundreds of thousands of people who match that for each person.

I'm talking about those people who say their partner is the one, their true love and they'll be together forever, think that NOTHING will bring them apart, and swear they'll never love anyone else, but you know that they wont last and they're kidding themselves I don't call that true love, I'm on about finding your TRUE LOVE the ONE person that is perfect for you, and I don't mean as in married couples coz 9 out of 10 get divorced and of the 1 couple that makes it, they end up hating each other towards the end, I'm on about finding that one person that you actually do love til the day your soul leaves your body.

You have a point there. However, don't you believe that some people find true love, even for a fleeting moment?

No, because if they found true love then it WOULD last forever, that's what true love is ment too mean, however more often then not they end for whatever reason and it's that the person who was supposedly in love with the other and called it 'true love' no longer loves them and the other (and myself) can't fathom how that's possible.

 

[Arseface]

Re: Love?

I'm talking about those people who say their partner is the one, their true love and they'll be together forever, think that NOTHING will bring them apart, and swear they'll never love anyone else, but you know that they wont last and they're kidding themselves I don't call that true love, I'm on about finding your TRUE LOVE the ONE person that is perfect for you, and I don't mean as in married couples coz 9 out of 10 get divorced and of the 1 couple that makes it, they end up hating each other towards the end, I'm on about finding that one person that you actually do love til the day your soul leaves your body.

That's a really pessemistic view on marriage. The trick is realising that marriage isn't the be all and end all of relationships, and that reality is emergent, meaning everything is constantly changing. If you realise that you may not feel the same way in a year, or ten years, then you'll have a much easier time with everything, not just relationships.

 

[Cobalt Gamer]

Re: Love?

That's a really pessemistic view on marriage. The trick is realising that marriage isn't the be all and end all of relationships, and that reality is emergent, meaning everything is constantly changing. If you realise that you may not feel the same way in a year, or ten years, then you'll have a much easier time with everything, not just relationships.

Well, I'm a really pessimistic person :noexpression: But it annoys me when people claim to have found true love when they don't even understand what it means...

 

[Fenrir]

Re: Love?

I beleive it can be found, but agree its rediculously unlikely. If nothing else you have come away from this experience with a greater appreciation for the word, and can laugh at other people who throw it around like candy.

 

[Arseface]

Re: Love?

Well, I'm a really pessimistic person :noexpression: But it annoys me when people claim to have found true love when they don't even understand what it means...

Again, though, it depends on their interpretation. True love could just be an intense level of love, rather than some mythical soul mate.

 

[Cobalt Gamer]

Re: Love?

I beleive it can be found, but agree its rediculously unlikely. If nothing else you have come away from this experience with a greater appreciation for the word, and can laugh at other people who throw it around like candy.

I've been laughin at those who throw the word around since I was 7, my parents for instance, always throwing that word around never meaning it lol, anyway, I always promised myself I'd never fall in love 'coz It'd only cause trouble, but when I let my gaurd down bam love hurt me, so I don't think true love is something to be thrown around like she said to me, true love is so unlikley and if you find it, hold on to it, buuuut chances are you havn't and you can "oh he says this or she says this to me" irony is, I've heard it all before adn have the scars to prove it.

 

[Arseface]

Re: Love?

That's sad. Closing yourself up like that because you fear that it might go wrong.

 

[Daemon300]

Re: Love?

I believe in it, because I feel it.

I'm in love with someone, but she doesn't like me, and I have problems with other girls because I want to be with her ;s

 

[droded]

Re: Love?

There is no point in trying to convince a person who isn't willing to listen to another person's viewpoint.

Love is real, and the fact that you have had your heart broken proves it - nothing lasts forever and the feelings you once felt were obviously strong enough for you to create a pointless thread on an internet forum ranting about how your 'ex-gf is a droded lololol'.

 

[Gikoku]

Re: Love?

Not really, because I highly doubt you feel TRUE love, because, it's not possible because somewhere down the line that 'true love' of your's will leave you, it's inevitable, nothing lasts forever.

I'm not denying it's existence, all I's saying is that no-one on this forum will feel it, becuase only 6 in 6 billion people will ever feel it. It's rarer then catching a bulbasour if you chose a charmander.

Alright, this doesn't make any sense. How in the world do you figure 6 in 6 billion, have you been doing extensive studies your entire life, do you actually know 6 billion people? And also, you're how old again?

I just don't find it to be a mere coincidence that your girlfriend dumps you not long ago, and then you're expressing this belief of yours right now.

Based on how you're running around in this thread, I'd express my thoughts on true love, but I can see it wouldn't be worth it (so I won't).

 

[Shirosaki]

Re: Love?

Your ego is too big to comprehend 'true love.' If she was your 'true love' or, if you loved her at all, then when she left you you wouldn't wish ill on her. If you love someone then you want the best for them, and you revealing explicit things about her and saying "you wrecked that place" or whatever, means you have never felt the emotion "love" for her.

You should pull your head out of your arse and dust off your ego, saying things like "my tally bar" or "much less attractive than me." If you've ever felt love in your life then show some respect and maybe a bit of grief or solemn mourning over your train wreck of a relationship rather than point scoring about how cool you are and how stupid she is for leaving you.