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Zarkes

Zarkes

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So I go to a community college up on a hill over the college campus. My friends decided to take some subsidized loans and go straight there. Plus my GPA was too low to get accepted haha. So I'm just doing that for another year before I transfer and get my degree debt free :)

I commute and my friends live together on campus. They have a very nice place with all the toys and all, surround sound, flatscreens in every room, the works. They want me to move in with them so everyone's rent would be cheaper. I'd be paying about 175$. And it sounds perfect and what could be better then partying with them all the time. Friday I went to my first strip club, pretty kewl except my friend brought his girlfriend, :{ akward.

But there is one reason why this would never happen. His gf has a friend named Steph who has no friends. She is over there everyday single day. And she likes me and if I'm there she won't go home and will sleepover hoping to mate with me. I can't game, can't watch movies, cant do anything because she is there. I'm even scared to sleep. She's not ugly but I can get hotter women and don't like her at all, besides I'm an asshole. She always follows me around, I'll go on a smoke break and she will follow me even though it's freezing and she doesn't smoke. If I make a joke that's not that witty she laughs very loudly like I'm amazing. Sometimes she cries and makes everyone feel akward and people get mad at me but its like you bang her jeezzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

This stuff happens to me alot even though my friend Demi is like friggin Aryian and dates a young model for a gf yet it doesn't happen to him ever. Maybe he's so good looking women know not to talk to him?

What just cause I'm a 'good guy' it's my duty to love fat girls, yah right.


So tell me how stupid I am for driving 30 miles to and from school for such a stupid reason.
 
So you don't want to move on with your life because of a girl? Tell her you don't like her and apologize for not being in control over your feelings.. If she continues to be a problem, tell her to f**k off.

Oh and one last thing, don't say to her something like "I know you're always here because I am" because she'll come back with something like "olololol u thinkz i r here 4 u? nub." and make you look like an idiot. Not worth it. Girls are assholes.
 
It's just that she's there everyday she kinda would come with the package. I just need to find a way to get rid of her.

I didn't add her on Facebook and that was a two day ordeal,

how come you didn't add me?

oh ugh I only add people I hangout with.

But we hang out all the time

We do not hang out.

Cries. Everyone yells at me like I punched her.

Screw you guys I'm goin home.
 
Ohhh so she's that type of girl. What you could do is get one of your female friends to have a chat with her.. Little 30 minute heart to heart to explain why she shouldn't like you and stuff. Just be careful about that, pick a girl who's friends with you but is okay with that girl. If you pick someone who likes her more, s**t might get real and they'll end up bitching about you.

True story. Past experience.
 
Seriously, don't take what I'm about to say as a crazy b*tch female opinion, that's not what I do, it's not who I am.

Aside from the fact you're not moving in because of a chick... Anyway...

Zarkes, you're behaving like an assh*le. And I only say that because it's true. This girl likes you, so treat her in a way in which she deserves. Alright, fair enough, you don't return her feelings. Tell her that and stop doing little petty, immature things like not adding her on facebook. Let her down gently, but make it clear. Using a proxy might soften the blow but we've all played Chinese Whispers and it can all go to hell. Not only that she might create little scenarios or explanations in her head and continue to be in denial "Maybe my friend wants him for herself, so that's why she told me to back off!" Do it yourself. Talk to her, explain exactly how you feel. Hopefully, if she's a smart girl she'll understand and she will back off. Though you'll need to be understanding and aware of the fact that it'll take time before she's over you and when things are no longer completely awkward between the two of you. But you'll cope and things will get better. And you should be able to move in.
 
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I am being petty I guess. I just don't want to give her any hope in the world, when I was younger I thought of myself as a gentlemen and was nice to all girls no matter what. That was worst then saying **** you for all parties involved. I understand your female side of it but if I add her or do anything like that I'm femaling her that it's okay.

I'm not seemingly playing hard to get I'm forthright and she knows my stance but she's a girl so she thinks she can get w/e she wants she doesn't know some men can think aswell.

Like the other night it was late and time for her to go home but my friend wanted to go to sleep so I offered to drive her home but she said she'd just stay over even tho I would be the only one up in that situation so I said I wanted to go to sleep and that'd be annoying since I'm on the couch and she was like oh you won't even know I'm here.

creepy.

10mins later and I can't sleep because of her typing and having to have the light on and then she gets up and sits by my feet so I just got up and left. The next time I'm over I will definatley make myself 100% clear and that means **** off. Which it's almost the point.

But the whole deal I was getting at is wether or not I get her off my nuts she'd still be there everyday and if I moved in I still wouldn't have a say because theyd be like well you're friends can't come over and stuff like that.

I'm not a douche towards girls they make me do this they force me in a corner, they're the hyenas I say I'm a man and if I don't want you in my bubble I don't have to its just I try to be nice about things at first but they don't get it.
 
Zjuggernaut said:
Yeah, but it's kind of hard to tell what essentially is a stalker to leave you alone..
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There's a difference between someone that really likes you and a creepy stalker that will follow you to no end.

Zarkes, just tell her you don't like her and that you're not interested in her. There's no reason to try to pull any clever **** to get rid of her, because all you're doing is causing more issues for yourself.
 
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Zarkes said:
I understand your female side of it but if I add her or do anything like that I'm femaling her that it's okay.
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Haha, poor Joker.

I'm not being clever or nothing at first I was nice to her that's just how I am but now I just wanna tell her off and I think I'm gunna. My friend is the one who lives there and he gets 10x the punage yet she doesn't creep on him. She just thinks I'm Mr. Innocent and can control me into it. I'm not being clever or dodgy or nothing believe me it's her.

I hate how women think theirs can do no evil.
 
I guess I don't know your experience, so I won't pretend to.
I will however say that if you don't want her to continue acting as she is now, do something about it. I don't necessarily mean curse at her and vent aggressively, but more so let her know that you aren't interested in her by talking to her.
A great way to do that is, rather obviously, give them compliments in a non-flirting manner so as to give her the reasoning that you aren't the only male out there.
If all else fails, proceed in whatever manner seems appropriate.
 
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