Mum you'v got to admit you get very frustrated with it,I mean you said that it was bullcrap or somthing like that!:/
Never go near your mother when she is playing Dragon age. 'Frustrated' is not the word to describe that situation.
As many people have touched upon Skyrim is a lot better in the visual category but i find that it does have the better gameplay, mainly because the Guilds and Questlines are more expansive. Without going into to much detail, the Guilds in Skyrim were terrible (In my opinion) compare to Oblivion, they lacked.. .substance? I would seriously pick up Oblivion if you love rpgs, yes it has worse graphics, but the gameplay is definitely there. As i do to most people, i would recomend Oblivion on pc down to the fact there are multiple mods that can make the visuals a lot better.