what should i do

[poopgod350]

what should i do

i hate my step dad and i know my mom grows sicker of him and his put downs everyday. here are what i think my options are

 

[jwc2200]

Re: what should i do

Another option, get a job, get a house, be a man. At 19 you should not be referring to yourself as a kid. Its time to move out of step dad's house and into your own. If your mom gets tired enough of him she will leave. That is her decision, it's not for you to decide. If things are so bad make some kind of move. At you age that move should involve you being on your own though.

I'm not being hard, just realistic.

 

[sabre3993]

Re: what should i do

^don't be that hard,
but whatever you decide on, get a good start there, (job... moneymaker lol), plan out everything, then set your course.

 

[poopgod350]

Re: what should i do

well umm... i actually lied on that because scince fable was a rated M game i thought the site would only let me in if i was old enough to perchase the game like so many other fable forums i am actually 15 um... yeah.... sorry for the lie
Oh but i do have my own job at six flags but yeah im actually 15

 

[Templar]

Re: what should i do

lol...

 

[jwc2200]

Re: what should i do

I kinda wondered if that was the case. Most 18+ guys do not refer to themselves as kids. If the step dad is abusive take yourself and siblings to your real dad's house and call CPS. If he is just a jerk, deal with it cuz most dads seem like jerks when you are 15. It will be up to your mom to make the decision to leave when she gets tired of stepdad, if she ever does, women put up with alot of crap when they are in love. If things are bad enough ask your mom to let you and siblings go to your grandmothers, but first ask siblings if they think things are bad, and ask grandmother if she can handle all of you. Ask yourself if things are as bad as they seem, and if they would be better if you make a move.

Best of luck to you too,

Jason

 

[poopgod350]

Re: what should i do

thanks. he is just a jerk he doesnt beat us or anything like that but he is very shot tempered and i hate that. the reason i become a hermit and stay in my room is because he is a jerk but at least i see there are helpful people out there like you jason and all the people at the forums most of you are pretty helpful most of the time and that answer somehow made me fell a little bit better than the crappy mood i was in when i first got on the forums and created this thread +rep to you jason
and also the other siblings of mine are not completely related to me and i have lived with this guy all my life but here lately he has just been hell to get along with

 

[jwc2200]

Re: what should i do

Glad to help.

 

[moonfever]

Re: what should i do

I had an abusive step-father, so I know how hard it is. If I had somewhere to go, I would have. I'm sorry for your mother, but you can't help her out of something, she created. I'd run, not walk, to the nearest exit. It's your life, and you don't want your grades to slip, and a wonderful childhood.