Am I a huge sucker or what?

[SelfAppointedGunslinger]

Sexy chick: Oh it's was just terrible, *sobs* the whole time he was horrible to me...

Tsuyu: Speech check [89%] "Well maybe the evening isn't a total loss" *put's arm around her suggestively* [Succeed]

Sexy chick: Oh Tsuyu, I didn't realise what strong arms you had *swoons like a love-sick school girl.*

Tsuyu:

 

[Angel]

Yeah Tsuyu! Max out that speech skill tree!

 

[Tsuyu]

Meh. I'm firmly cemented in the friend zone. Apparently it went well and she even implied she might ask me some other time to watch her cats so she can visit him again.

 

[TRA Rotid]

Meh. I'm firmly cemented in the friend zone. Apparently it went well and she even implied she might ask me some other time to watch her cats so she can visit him again.

Just hope she won't be washing those sheets next time.

 

[SelfAppointedGunslinger]

Meh. I'm firmly cemented in the friend zone. Apparently it went well and she even implied she might ask me some other time to watch her cats so she can visit him again.

You might want to get a list of excuses prepared in that case, last thing you want to be in is the friend zone, it'll mess with your mind big time.

 

[Tsuyu]

I'm already waist-deep into the friend zone.

 

[Necromancer]

You might as well just go for it then. The worst thing that can happen is everything stays the same. I don't know about you, but I never want to look back on some girl I used to like and wonder what could have been, so I always go for it no matter the circumstances. It hasn't exactly worked out for me yet, but it's bound to at some point...right?

 

[Gikoku]

You might as well just go for it then. The worst thing that can happen is everything stays the same. I don't know about you, but I never want to look back on some girl I used to like and wonder what could have been, so I always go for it no matter the circumstances. It hasn't exactly worked out for me yet, but it's bound to at some point...right?

Yeah, but you risk ruining the friendship you currently have for something you likely may never have. Personally I'd pursue elsewhere (plenty around to go after) and keep what I already have that's nice. And who knows, the future is never certain that's for sure.. things between the guy could end up not working out and there ya go.. she's available again. But if you keep pressing and pursuing, then you can likely forget about it.

 

[Necromancer]

Yeah, but you risk ruining the friendship you currently have for something you likely may never have. Personally I'd pursue elsewhere (plenty around to go after) and keep what I already have that's nice. And who knows, the future is never certain that's for sure.. things between the guy could end up not working out and there ya go.. she's available again. But if you keep pressing and pursuing, then you can likely forget about it.

That's true. You just have to evaluate how much you care about the friendship. And, I don't know, for me personally, pursuing elsewhere never seems like a viable option just because of how incredibly long it takes for me to find another person I'm actually interested in. And I'm not really advocating that he keep pressing. I usually just put everything on the line once and leave the girl alone when she says no.

 

[Tsuyu]

Honestly, I'd settle for just being f*** buddies.... I think. I'd be fake, sure. She'd actually not care for me in the end.

But some of us prefer illusion to despair...

 

[Dark Drakan]

Id look elsewhere but at the same time be her friend. That way you dont look desperate and keep your options open on both fronts, dont burn your bridges and all that.

 

[TRA Rotid]

Honestly, being a friend is more of a safety net rather than the Berlin wall. But that's just me.

 

[Tsuyu]

Honestly, being a friend is more of a safety net rather than the Berlin wall. But that's just me.

The Friend Zone is sort of the relationship equivalent of being stuck in a dead-end job without any chance for promotion.

 

[TRA Rotid]

The Friend Zone is sort of the relationship equivalent of being stuck in a dead-end job without any chance for promotion.

Yeah and that's what I don't believe in. If you're in the Friend Zone and not enough to be a friend then... well, it's a No Zone.
I haven't been in 9Gag for quite some time (ok, busted, the Slurpee picture was the 3rd one on the page, but I didn't get further than that).

 

[Dark Drakan]

The Friend Zone is sort of the relationship equivalent of being stuck in a dead-end job without any chance for promotion.

Not always, ive had 3 long term relationships all start from being friends first. The relationship im in now started that way too so not always.

 

[Tsuyu]

Well, honestly there is a difference between "being friends" and being told that "I like you, but only as a friend". In the latter case, your fate is sorta sealed whilst the other contains untold possibilities.

 

[TRA Rotid]

True that. "Only" is the fateful word there. "I like you, but only as someone who is willing to watch over my cats during weekends when I'm out partying my ass off."

 

[Dark Drakan]

Well, honestly there is a difference between "being friends" and being told that "I like you, but only as a friend". In the latter case, your fate is sorta sealed whilst the other contains untold possibilities.

Exactly and no harm looking for greener grass elsewhere in the meantime while you figure out where you stand.

 

[Quistrix]

This might be the wrong time to bring this up but I need someone to take care of my cat this weekend, and I figured seeing as you have a lot of experience, Tsuyu, you might... y'know.

I won't be changing my bed sheets btw.

And believe me - that isn't a good thing.

 

[TRA Rotid]

This might be the wrong time to bring this up but I need someone to take care of my cat this weekend, and I figured seeing as you have a lot of experience, Tsuyu, you might... y'know.

I won't be changing my bed sheets btw.

And believe me - that isn't a good thing.

That's right, I asked queen to look after my cats while I'm gone. It all adds up nicely.