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LIBIDO IS THE FAIL

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LIBIDO IS THE FAIL

Don't post if you're just going to flame or take the ****.


I have a perfectly good boyfriend, fully functional, fine working order, blah blah. We've been together for something like a year and a half now, and it's a really good relationship

BUT

I can't stop myself from chatting up random guys on the internet -_-
I know it's totally wrong and Doug'd throw a fit about it, but I really can't help it :(
It's not like they've got anything he hasn't (except better makeup), I just do it.
How do I stop?
 
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I'm not exactly sure how I can help but.. Why not try and find something that made you and Doug come together in the first place, about how happy you were? Then just ask yourself if your actually satisfied with all of that now, if you are, everytime you talk to some other random joe just think of that and how much he'd probably hurt from you doing this if he ever found out. I mean, don't get me wrong... What's so bad about talking to another guy? I mean it's not like you are sending him pictures that the FCC should be aware of. (To my knowledge anyway :P) I'm sorry if this doesn't help but, It's rather early in the morning and my eyes are still adjusting, which makes it hard to think.

Best of luck to you!
 
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Hexen_Harlot;301932 said:
Don't post if you're just going to flame or take the ****.


I have a perfectly good boyfriend, fully functional, fine working order, blah blah. We've been together for something like a year and a half now, and it's a really good relationship

BUT

I can't stop myself from chatting up random guys on the internet -_-
I know it's totally wrong and Doug'd throw a fit about it, but I really can't help it :(
It's not like they've got anything he hasn't (except better makeup), I just do it.
How do I stop?
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I feel that it is a Perfectly Healthy Human Condition that we want others to like us; and I think that we are Born with this; as Babies we Crave Attention from anyone around us as we are Helpless;
On the Internet; I believe a Large Number of people; including myself; are Flattered by Kindness; and it is Very Easy to fall into a 'Relationship Status' type of Connection with another person; as I have done; and when the 'Fall Out' occurs; for the Emotional Feelings to be the Same as if it were a Personal Relationship in 'Life'; ouside of the Internet;
Whilst playing on XBL I have found both Men and Women 'Flirting' sometimes outrageously with each other; even though they have a Partner at Home; I can't do this myself as my Personal Experience still Hurts So Much; but; if you consider it like a 'New Toy' of sorts; then you may Punish yourself less I Hope;
'How do I stop it' you asked; well; I am wondering if you could introduce something into your Relationship that may make these people on the Internet either 'Less Attractive' or 'Less Meaningful'; in the sense that you feel you have all you need at Home and don't have the Need for anything else ?
The only other thing I would say is that on the Internet; when the Person and the PC are Alone as it were; it can feel a little 'Naughty' to experiment; but again that can be put down to Human Nature; and I wouldn't tell yourself that you are doing something 'Wrong'; unless you feel it is 'Wrong' or feel 'Guilty' about it; but if you do feel those things; a Psychologist told me once; 'Just Stop' (Harming Myself); and though it seemed Incredulous; and Stupid of him to suggest it; it actually Worked;
I Wish you the Very Best :)
 
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^That's about what I was going to say... You are like the Female and much nicer JohnDoe... So now I have to type something else... I have been in an off and on relationship (currently off) with whom I feel is my love, and I still chat/flirt with people on the internet, it isn't anything horrible imo... I't isn't like you are sending them naked pictures is it? If not then it's just like an E-Friend sort of thing... I just played with a brand new E-Buddy on live yesterday, she was nice, Me and my buddy were a bit (Overly) flirty, she didn't mind, and it wasn't like we asked her; her bra size or nothin... As long as it does not get out of hand... And you don't feel guilty, then go ahead and do it, there are worse things you can do that your partner would still not get angry if you did (Such as porn and other things)
 
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You could try expiriementing sexually and become one of those wierd couples that have some freaky fetish
 
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^ Hm, that song tells the truth.

Most people will probably end their relations very soon after they found out about each other. :lol:

If you know what you're doing, and don't make a mess of yourself, everything's fine. There's nothing wrong to have a little online privacy of your own. Good luck and have fun.
 
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She could come clean and tell him all about her little e-flings, if he doesn't understand and dumps you he's clearly not the right guy
 
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Whoa whoa WHOA this has got MAJORLY exaggerated. I'm not havign relationships or cybersex with other guys, and I'm not sending them naked pictures of myself! I just make it fairly obvious that i think they're hot and then go slitting my wrists about it lol
Not literally, before Urahara sticks his oar in.
 
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Yeah but you still think it's wrong chatting with those guys?
 
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^I don't think she does... Do you? Anyway, your making it come off as a bad thing... Like many have said, it's fine within barriers, barriers mentioned before.
 
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If it's fine she should tell her boyfriend?
 
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^Nah... Logic is evading you on this matter, thats like if you have a fat wife and she asks "Do i look fat in this?" And since the truth is always the finest and best way to answer questions you say: Yes you look fat.
 
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If I said that she wouldn't be my wife for long
 
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Chatting with strangers online is a two person fantasy, the question is wether it's right or wrong to fantasize?
 
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