Re: Real life sucks
devilltrigger;358780 said:
Eh.. alcohol is a bad answer to your problems. Maybe if you're feeling good it's alright to have a few drinks but not while you're down. Since this is the second time it's happened, move on. Don't give her the opportunity to bring you down again. Yeah, it might be hard to forget about her at first.. But you'll be a better person for doing it. Hang out with other friends who can cheer you up. Lastly, don't talk about suicide. It's not cool. Even if it seems like the right choice, things always get better. It just takes some time. I know it all sounds cliche and you probably don't care to hear it but it's honest..
P.S. forums are a bad place to seek advice..
I love my life even with problems, I never though about suicide nor I will.
Necromancer11;358855 said:
Something that is somewhat similar to this happened to me a while back, and I just have to say that I wish I had realized that this had to be done as early as you did.
Nothing against you personally, Firis, but that's some of the worst advice I've heard. If she's made up her mind, she's not going back. Hanging around her will just make the pain last longer. I speak from experience.
Just as Arseface said, you're young, not stupid. Don't put yourself down for making a big deal out of such things. It is what we teenagers do.
Well sure it's the right thing to do, you know, if you have no balls and would like a relationship built upon lies and being controlled by your woman.
Not true. Getting advice from people on a forum can be very helpful because they are not involved in the situation, and are therefore impartial to it. Getting input from different people who have had different experiences is one of the best things you can do in this type of situation.
Well, on some way I did let her go, I really don't care what she is going
to do with who and when.
I did accept the blame for things I actually was guilty, others no.
cheezMcNASTY;358860 said:
wow.
just, wow. i open this thread after i'm working a day with a coworker i cut off a "developing thing" with. pardon my french, but **** like this has been on my mind all day.
it hurts, trust me i know. there's really not much i can say as anonymous poster at site x who doesn't know you, but here's what i learned today.
biology is different between boys and girls. it may seem hard to understand why someone of the opposite sex would think or do what they do. part of understanding it is just noticing that no one else is feeling your feelings, your the only one making it so glum. the other thing is, in a manner of speech, that boys and girls live their lives on different drugs. their reality won't coincide with yours as often as you like.
hope that made sense, cause when this stuff wears off and i read it in a few hours i probably won't understand it. :lol:
Kinda make sense, not sure 100% full meaning, but I got the point
xSiLeNtxD34tHx;358863 said:
I was in the EXACT same situation as you. It Sucks Anus, but I was hurt by her so many times that instead of feeling heart broken again something just changed, and all of a sudden I hated her, and didnt care anymore, and trust me it went on for a good 3 years, she even led me on at some points.
Know what you mean. I doubt she is going to hurt me again just simply cause
I don't care as much as I used to
Shirosaki;358882 said:
He wont reply because he is currently running, which I am proud of him for doing because by tackling his problems, he's an inspiration to us all.
Hahaha, I didn't run, I took a walk and reconsider situation better this time.
I apologized to her for starting the fight, although I doubt it was me who
started it, I just told her the truth how I felt.
Truth is, I really don't care about her that much anymore, but I still like her
and still want to be her friend.
