whats the worst thing youve had to hide from your parents? (excluding porn)
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I know this. It's still a partial opinion in my case.
Um...maybe. I definitely think I have a sexual side, but I've suppressed it for so long and thought of it as taboo to even go into making me not desire intercourse. I've also been traumatized by media and my friends.
Um...maybe. I definitely think I have a sexual side, but I've suppressed it for so long and thought of it as taboo to even go into making me not desire intercourse. I've also been traumatized by media and my friends.
Just out of curiosity, if it isn't too personal. What do You mean by traumatized? Just wondering.
Ugh, that's not personal at all 
I honestly don't know. I've only had a few "relationships" that I knew weren't going to work out from the beginning because I can't bring myself to by physical, and when I do, I quickly retreat.
I think it has to do with "Reality Shows" and the fact that everyone gets in a "relationship" that never works out. I've also come to believe that sex is a poor representation of Love, something people also don't know/understand.
Another trauma is my friend and my brother. That's a tad more personal and would more likely discuss with you through personal messages as I'd rather it not be posted for all to see. I'm embarrassed of my brother, not my friend...but anyway.
Another of my friends also went in a relationship a virgin and came out all messed up because she had sex. Although, she had sex with the person before they went out >_>...but that's a longer story that I try not to remember seeing as it's kind of degrading :/
I honestly don't know. I've only had a few "relationships" that I knew weren't going to work out from the beginning because I can't bring myself to by physical, and when I do, I quickly retreat.
I think it has to do with "Reality Shows" and the fact that everyone gets in a "relationship" that never works out. I've also come to believe that sex is a poor representation of Love, something people also don't know/understand.
Another trauma is my friend and my brother. That's a tad more personal and would more likely discuss with you through personal messages as I'd rather it not be posted for all to see. I'm embarrassed of my brother, not my friend...but anyway.
Another of my friends also went in a relationship a virgin and came out all messed up because she had sex. Although, she had sex with the person before they went out >_>...but that's a longer story that I try not to remember seeing as it's kind of degrading :/
Women do it regardless and women cheat on men just as much as men do. It's a terrible thing that both genders do but it's not like you can stop them.
Where are these statistics? I think I've heard them before from a friend taking a class on "Marriage and the Family" but I can't remember if that was something else he was telling me...hmm
Yeah, and it's also something I'd rather avoid altogether, which has become any form of romantic relationship. There has been too much in my life (with my friends and extended family) than I care to ever know/experience.
(Another trauma?)
Yeah, and it's also something I'd rather avoid altogether, which has become any form of romantic relationship. There has been too much in my life (with my friends and extended family) than I care to ever know/experience.
(Another trauma?)
I'm with you man. I've experienced a lot of crap and it just tore me apart. There are times though... when I feel like it was all a necessary part of my life to help build me up. I don't believe in God or anything of the sort but I do believe in fate and I feel that we're all born with our lives predetermined. It seems terrible but it's not and you can't fight it because whatever choices you make are the choices that were meant to happen anyways. Still... everything happens for a reason and I believe myself to be better for what I've experienced but yeah... I'm also pretty flawed because of it. Life isn't perfect, you know?
Uh, probably weed. I can't remember a time recently when I didn't have at least an ounce hidden somewhere in my room. I've also had to have sex on the floor with pillows since my bed squeaks something fierce. One can imagine how incriminating steady, rhythmic bumps and creaks would be.
Ummm... Probably a section of one of my school reports. I hadn't handed in an assignment or something. Yeah, pretty tame. 
She eventually found it anyway and didn't make a big deal of it. I acted casual like "Oh must have been torn off. >.>" Oh and there's that time she found out I'd hidden that Parent-Teacher Interview note from her... heh
Does it count as hiding if you don't actually have to make any efforts to hide it?
She eventually found it anyway and didn't make a big deal of it. I acted casual like "Oh must have been torn off. >.>" Oh and there's that time she found out I'd hidden that Parent-Teacher Interview note from her... heh
Does it count as hiding if you don't actually have to make any efforts to hide it?
What a different side of you. With all the strength you possess it's amazing that you still don't see how angry you get at perfectly good people who have not wronged you. Take what you have learned from your hardships and be a better person. Continue to think like this, and not snap and the slightest provoking.
You may wonder why I'm saying this, and yes I'm sure you have a myriad of witty mean things to say, but my best friend was an arrogant and angry person but he was my friend because he was so creative, and we bonded with music and art. He made many people's lives hell in high school and of course over the internet like on facebook. He wasn't aware of it, and he pushed everyone away from him. However, once he felt he had no friends he killed himself. Obviously I blamed myself because I was supposed to be his best friend, and I did all I could, but he pushed himself over the edge. I always said I wish I could've done more. Been more frank with him. I tried to just be cool and not provoke him, but that wasn't the way to go obviously.It's been a long time since he died, but I still feel regret.
I'm sure you've heard about all the bullying suicides recently and I just wanted to point out what online bullying can do to people. You may say "well the weak should stay off of the internet", well that's just not the way it works. In our society, we tend to value safety and promote brotherhood. People who have done nothing wrong should not be subjected to such hatred.
I see you have emotions and you are a human being, therefore I write this to you in order to reach out. A friendly gesture. I have nothing mean or bad to say to you. I hope you will take this to heart, and try to be a litter nicer. I see you are capable.
Also remember, the intelligent do not need to stoop to insults to get their point across.
UPDATE: Father found my condoms. He slapped me in the back of the head and told me not to do that under his roof.
He then gave me a high-five.
<3 pop.
He then gave me a high-five.
<3 pop.
We've all been there, my pop yelled for a good 10 minutes till my mom left the room then he hugged me and gave me a 50 bill