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Girl Problems

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  • Follow my heart and stay with her

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Kick her to the curb and become a monk

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Kick her to the curb for a raunchy villager who dislikes Westcliff

    Votes: 8 44.4%

  • Follow my heart and explode into oblivion

    Votes: 10 55.6%
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Dean Gullberry
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Girl Problems

My brother has seen me on these forums before and has some problems. He wants some advice from all of you. It's almost a rant but he could use some help.

Here it is:

So, Ive had this girlfriend of mine for about 6 months, and we say we're in love but we are also very young for that
I'm not 12 or 15, I'm 18, so understand why I'm so lost.

First we were perfect, until we had some tension; unavoidable. We made up and a week later I took a ticket from the police on her behalf and now I can't drive. We made up, again, whatever.

She ignores me all the time, and I can't stand it. She makes me feel effeminate, which infuriates me. She never wants to talk, and she is so ungrateful you'd never believe. I'm a guy who just wants so passion in the relationship, not this cold passivity.

I have a job, 35 hours a week. I go to college full time, 35 hours a week. I'm stressed, I just want to play games and relax but then I gotta go hang out with her and her friends, just so she can avoid me and scorn when I make them laugh.

I love that girl, and I don't know why. Everyone says to leave her. Cops, acne, heart ache, scarred knuckles, broken hand bones, underage drinking, screaming into my pillow at night, crying, vomiting.

Is she worth that damage?
I'm I overreacting?

And if you got some real words to spit pm me, cause I need a friend right now. Crying already
 
Re: Girl Problems

well, do you honestly think you'd be happier with a girl who appreciated you more?
there are people out there who get satisfaction from being treated that way. i'm no masochist, so i'll say she's not right for you at this point in your life - ditch her.

but if your someone who's attracted to her because she treats ya that way, then you have your answer. i'd say something more heartfelt, but it's 3 AM.
tl;dr: break up.
 
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The best solution for your age is to leave her. You will find another with time. Focus on your life and your future. Relationships are better when you are older.
 
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BRING HER TO ME.

I WILL SHOW HER THE TRUE MEANING OF PAIN AND SUFFERING!

SHE WILL EXPERIENCE FEAR AND TORMENT LIKE NO HUMAN HAS FELT BEFORE!!

(caps lock is cruise control for SERIOUS.)
 
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I'm not going to vote because none of the options are serious, but I'll give you an answer that I've learnt from my own journeys into long-term failures of relationships.

A relationship, and certainly one that the "L" word is present in, should make the both of you happy and to want the best for each other. You shouldn't feel shy or oppressed around her, you should become more cheerful and the best of your character should come out because you are two halves together.

A relationship where one/both of you are unhappy, jealous or unsatisfied all the time is destined to be a failure no matter what you do. You can't change yourself, and you certainly can't change her without her wanting to do it for herself.

In conclusion, you are young (older than me though), so just end the relationship; bury the hatchet and have some fun while you are still in the "springtime of youth" and you may meet that special person along the way.
 
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Well whatever the hell it is, it ain't love.

Ditch the, ahem, female dog.

Then go gay. You'll be treated WAY better.
 
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Ive warned friends and family away from this type. They dont listen usually, then it ends badly. Friend of mine had one like this with the addition of being the dramatic, jealous, clingy type. We all told him to cut her loose, he didnt listen. Then she supposedly got pregnant so he married her. Three days after the wedding she conveniently had a "miscarriage" and he's stuck married to a b**ch. I think she made the whole thing up to get him on the leash. Another friend and my cousin are in the same damn boat but they arent listening. I-told-you-so's are in the mail.
 
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Finish her! No seriously, end it. I don't think I need to state why everyone else pretty much covered it.

I also voted the "Raunchy Villager" one because you may need a one night stand to take you mind of it.
 
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DarkenedSoul;422137 said:
It ain't exactly huggles and flowery fields being gay, love.
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You mean you don't dress like rainbows and sing Village People songs to each other? I'm sooo disappointed...:(

;)
 
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In one plain word: No.

Time will pass, heartache will mend. You should have someone who equals you, who completes you. Who makes you feel like everyday you can fly. Not that you want to scream into your pillow and cry.

Having been in 2 past relationships that stood out in my mind I know when to move on.

Dump her and look for someone better.

"You won't find the right person if you don't let go of the wrong one."
 
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I'm gonna speak from experience.

You are being abused, you are in an abusive relationship.

My first love was a sado-masochist and I still think she enjoyed drama and pain and... well generally making people's lives miserable. But she was so happy-go-lucky... Ahhh masks..

*ahem* Prettymuch everyone has said the same, you are better off finding someone who inspires you, fills the hole in your soul. Not someone who brings you down and makes that hole all the bigger. It'll hurt, but dump her sorry ass and make her wish SHE broke up with YOU. Heh.
 
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I've said it before and I'll say it again; women are NOT worth it. If you're really that desperate to be loved then get a hooker. Not only are they cheaper but they're pretty much obligated to do whatever you tell them. You might think I'm joking but I'm quite serious. Women undervalue a man's emotions and play with them without thinking of the consequences. Then they turn around and cry and whine for attention when something similar happens to them.

If you're a masochist and into being stomped on, then stick with her. Otherwise, dump her sorry ass and make sure you do something to get back at her for all the **** she put you through.
 
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GrimWhim;422239 said:
I've said it before and I'll say it again; women are NOT worth it. If you're really that desperate to be loved then get a hooker.
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Never, ever ever give relationship advice again. You're the type of twat that things love is all about sex, when it absolutely is not.
 
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Noctus;422248 said:
Never, ever ever give relationship advice again. You're the type of twat that things love is all about sex, when it absolutely is not.
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Did I EVER mention sex in that post? No. Was it implied? No. Just because I mentioned a hooker does not mean I was referring to sex. I bet they'd prefer to talk than bone you anyways. Keep your pathetic insults to yourself.
 
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