Girl Problems

[White_Howler]

Re: Girl Problems

You know, I tried that and even then people would still twist my words and confuse what I'm trying to say. So I gave up and eventually I may just give up talking to people all together.

No! not before you answer to my post in the MC vs. Predator thread! I made a good post >.<

 

[Noctus]

Re: Girl Problems

Hey now, :getlost: we dealt with, escalated, and defused the situation. The same advice goes for you too. Doesn't matter what people say, you show respect and curtousy for everyone regardless of how they act. :hmm:

Perhaps if he didn't talk to me in such a condescending manner like an arrogant little sod I'd show a bit of courtesy.

 

[White_Howler]

Re: Girl Problems

It seems to me, that YOU are the one who became vulgar first. If anything, YOU should watch your tongue and learn some manners.

It's just as bad to retort with something that vulgar.

 

[Sephiroxas]

Re: Girl Problems

Perhaps if he didn't talk to me in such a condescending manner like an arrogant little sod I'd show a bit of courtesy.

Well if you had READ past what you quoted and reacted to, you'd know that sometimes he doesn't mean to come off that way.
and again, it doesn't matter how someone acts towards you. YOU be the BIGGER and BETTER person, and dust it off your shoulder. I'm now getting irritated and tired of this off-topic-ness. I'm sure the poster wouldn't appreciate it too much.

as I've said, we talked about, escalated, and DEFUSED the situation. think before you act and get back on topic people.

 

[Firis]

Re: Girl Problems

^You just retorted my butt-buddy who will now claim we never had anything special and that I mean nothing to him other than a douche on the forum :'(
EDIT; Ninja'd

 

[Sephiroxas]

Re: Girl Problems

^You just retorted my butt-buddy who will now claim we never had anything special and that I mean nothing to him other than a douche on the forum :'(
EDIT; Ninja'd

:ninja: Why yes, yes you did get ninja'd

Or don't tell her you're dumping her and go off and f*ck someone and see how she likes being ignored.

That'd be the ultimate form of revenge :devil:

 

[Noctus]

Re: Girl Problems

Fine, whatever. Yes, I took it too far. I apologize for insulting him and I revoke it. But he shouldn't wander into a serious topic that's asking for help and giving such stupid, stupid advice. To claim all women are such horrible, vile creatures is absolutely stupid and to claim that hookers fill the void a partner can is even worse.

P.S: This is coming from a gay bloke, love - and even I don't have such jaded views on women.

 

[White_Howler]

Re: Girl Problems

True, but he was already chastised for it, and apologized for it.

I agree with you that his remark was shallow, but it still gives you no right to attack him.

Women are VERY complex creatures, but so are we men. TBH gender is purely physical imo. Both men and women are guilty of toying with emotions and playing games with peoples lives. And honestly I have to say that there are more users than true lovers on a whole.

But back on topic, find a gal who you enjoy the time you spend with her. You should feel like the time you spend away from her is just as painful as the hurt you experience from you abusive current girlfriend. If you experience that kind of tortured heartache just by being away from the gal you love (who treats you GOOD0, than you've found your love! But... seriously, get out of this abusive relationship now. Unless you enjoy the pain and suffering, find someone who will give you just the opposite.

 

[Gikoku]

Re: Girl Problems

You said find a hooker, you couldn't get any more sexual than that you f*cktard.

Knock it off, you've been given an infraction now (this is your 2nd one). You saw things were cooling down, and you had to escalate things further by adding more fuel to the fire.

I said it before, and I'll say it again.. If you guys want to insult someone, then hit the damn back button on your browser and ignore them. Honestly, it's as simple as that.

I ask because I have no idea what their problem with me is. It's not designed to be an insult but more to help me understand just exactly what's wrong and why people are so quick to get upset and/or angry. My opinion on people I know nothing about is neutral until their actions and words give me a general idea of what kind of person they are.

You definitely need to be more aware of what it is you're typing, it may not be offensive to you but it can be to others. As White Howler suggested, re-read your reply before posting it with consideration in mind so you can prevent nonsense like this from happening again.

You're being let off with a warning (no infraction this time) for now, but if this happens one more time after all of this advice that has been given, then you're going to be banned.

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Keep this thread on topic from this point on.

 

[Noctus]

Re: Girl Problems

To be honest with you, I think the topic has come to an end. Almost every active member has given their opinion and there really isn't anything to debate or talk about.

I think it should just be locked.

 

[Sephiroxas]

Re: Girl Problems

Well maybe. But I'd still like to see if The Maker of the thread, has any reply, or thanks for the advice. ^_^

 

[Gikoku]

Re: Girl Problems

To be honest with you, I think the topic has come to an end. Almost every active member has given their opinion and there really isn't anything to debate or talk about.

I think it should just be locked.

Might as well, much apologies to HeroOfCrapsalot.

Thread closed.