Girl Problems

[Firis]

Re: Girl Problems

Did I EVER mention sex in that post? No. Was it implied? No. Just because I mentioned a hooker does not mean I was referring to sex. I bet they'd prefer to talk than bone you anyways. Keep your pathetic insults to yourself.

How about you learn some manners, remember what you posted, learn about life, keep your pathetic posts to yourself and not troll our members

 

[CitrusKiss]

Re: Girl Problems

That relationship sounds like nothing good will come from it, I'm sorry :/

If you want to try to fix it, you could always try talking to her. Ask her why she does some of these things and try to understand her. It could be you're doing something that's upsetting her and you don't realize it. Of course, even if that's the case, it still doesn't mean she should be treating you like this. Try to work it out as best you can, or end it with her since the relationship is obviously unhealthy. But don't let it stay the way it is now :/

 

[GrimWhim]

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How about you learn some manners, remember what you posted, learn about life, keep your pathetic posts to yourself and not troll our members

I have manners, I can remember what I posted, I know plenty about life but you need to go fall off a cliff. I'm tired of y'all throwing a tantrum because I have an opinion. You don't like it? Don't read it! Nobody is forcing you to. Or, rather than acting like a massive douche, you could explain in a civil manner what's wrong with my post/opinion.

Of course, now I'm going to get reprimanded or banned because I decided to defend myself and retaliate. Gotta love how the world works.

Shows how much you know. This is something I have some experience in, and they prefer to bone. If you want to make friends, it will cost more money.

Alright, so I'm wrong. Do I know everything? Nah. Do I claim to know everything? No. Then again, I don't actually go around hiring whores and what not so I was basing it off the hope that they don't actually enjoy being immoral and sleazy. My bad, next time I'll keep my optimism out of it.

 

[Noctus]

Re: Girl Problems

Did I EVER mention sex in that post? No. Was it implied? No. Just because I mentioned a hooker does not mean I was referring to sex. I bet they'd prefer to talk than bone you anyways. Keep your pathetic insults to yourself.

definition for hooker:

• streetwalker: a prostitute who attracts customers by walking the streets

Yeah. Shut up.

 

[Sephiroxas]

Re: Girl Problems

Women undervalue a man's emotions and play with them without thinking of the consequences. Then they turn around and cry and whine for attention when something similar happens to them.
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Not to stomp on your already dead parade, but I'm a woman, and I happen to know that I DO NOT play with a mans emotions without thinking of consequences. :'( I love my boyfriend, and I do everything in my power to please him, to make him happy, to LOVE him, :wub: and have him love me in return, we're an equal partnership, and we talk about every problem, and situation that comes our way.

I do not cry and whine for attention, because he loves me enough to give it to me without me asking. He'll stop his video game for a breif five minutes to enjoy my company, then we both continue on our merry-gaming way.

So, think about something before you say it, and Lump all women into a group, making them seem generally heartless. If that was not your intent, then I'm sorry, that's how it came across. :blush:

and you probably won't be banned. But geeze, lighten up a little.

 

[GrimWhim]

Re: Girl Problems

definition for hooker:

Yeah. Shut up.

Oh derp, my bad. I guess I don't know the definition of what a whore, prostitute, hooker, etc. is. Oh wait... I DO! But you said I was talking about sex when I clearly wasn't. So if anyone needs to shut up, it needs to be you.

Not to stomp on your already dead parade, but I'm a woman, and I happen to know that I DO NOT play with a mans emotions without thinking of consequences. :'( I love my boyfriend, and I do everything in my power to please him, to make him happy, to LOVE him, :wub: and have him love me in return, we're an equal partnership, and we talk about every problem, and situation that comes our way.

I do not cry and whine for attention, because he loves me enough to give it to me without me asking. He'll stop his video game for a breif five minutes to enjoy my company, then we both continue on our merry-gaming way.

So, think about something before you say it, and Lump all women into a group, making them seem generally heartless. If that was not your intent, then I'm sorry, that's how it came across. :blush:

and you probably won't be banned. But geeze, lighten up a little.

Lighten up a little? What the hell did I do to anyone here? Not a god damn thing. I get assholes picking on me daily because I'm blunt and maybe a bit crude in how I act. But nothing I do, until someone provokes me, is breaking the rules or harming anyone so why people find it necessary to then start something is beyond me.

Are they intimidated on an intellectual level? Are they just afraid of someone who doesn't hold back his feelings? I don't care what it is but I'm tired of people fighting with me. I wouldn't mind it so much if they could act their age but no, they'd sooner resort to insulting and completely going off-topic than act like a civilized human being who can calmly and intelligently discuss how they feel.

I'm not purposely going around in ****ing in people's Cheerios, because that's not who I am. I say what's on my mind and sometimes I say it in a way that seems cold and heartless. I get that but I can't help who I am and I'll say it again, if y'all don't like it, don't read it. No one but you is forcing you to read it.

And, for your information, I was referring to most women, not all so you may or may not be included in that. I don't know you though so I can't say. Hell, you could be the only one who isn't like that but that's something I'll never know.

However, from my personal experience, this is how women act. God forbid I don't delude myself into believing otherwise.

 

[Sephiroxas]

Re: Girl Problems

Lighten up a little? What the hell did I do to anyone here? Not a god damn thing. I get assholes picking on me daily because I'm blunt and maybe a bit crude in how I act. But nothing I do, until someone provokes me, is breaking the rules or harming anyone so why people find it necessary to then start something is beyond me.

Are they intimidated on an intellectual level? Are they just afraid of someone who doesn't hold back his feelings? I don't care what it is but I'm tired of people fighting with me. I wouldn't mind it so much if they could act their age but no, they'd sooner resort to insulting and completely going off-topic than act like a civilized human being who can calmly and intelligently discuss how they feel.

I'm not purposely going around in ****ing in people's Cheerios, because that's not who I am. I say what's on my mind and sometimes I say it in a way that seems cold and heartless. I get that but I can't help who I am and I'll say it again, if y'all don't like it, don't read it. No one but you is forcing you to read it.

And, for your information, I was referring to most women, not all so you may or may not be included in that. I don't know you though so I can't say. Hell, you could be the only one who isn't like that but that's something I'll never know.

However, from my personal experience, this is how women act. God forbid I don't delude myself into believing otherwise.

I wasn't trying to fight with you so I don't know why you just exploded on me. I was just saying that a lot of your posts come of as...shall I say...aggressive..is all. :'(


and if you didn't mean to lump women in as a whole you should've said "From my personal experience SOME women SEEM to....."

 

[Shadowtree]

Re: Girl Problems

I dont wanna be mean or anything but as a female myself I must say it. :'(
Save your dignity. Dump her.Show no Weaknesses while doing said dumping.

You need to find someone better who doesnt force you to do what you dont want to do and be mean to you while you're doing it... standards you know?

 

[Zjuggernaut]

Re: Girl Problems

Or don't tell her you're dumping her and go off and f*ck someone and see how she likes being ignored.

 

[GrimWhim]

Re: Girl Problems

I wasn't trying to fight with you so I don't know why you just exploded on me. I was just saying that a lot of your posts come of as...shall I say...aggressive..is all. :'(

I know, I'm sorry. I'm just a little angry right now.

I am so sick of people trying to screw with me and I'm the only one getting in trouble because of it.

Apparently, it's okay when other people insult me but if I defend myself and retaliate, I'm a troll.

Whatever. I'm sure I'll get banned soon enough and that will make 'em happy.

 

[White_Howler]

Re: Girl Problems

Are they intimidated on an intellectual level?

It's lines like these that seem insulting and can be easily misinterpreted. What I get from this is that, in general, you think yourself of greater intelligence than others. It feels like you look down on people sometimes. It's fine to be blunt and maybe a little crude, but saying lines like the one above are what makes people angry. It's insulting, and people tend to fight fire with fire.

 

[Sephiroxas]

Re: Girl Problems

I know, I'm sorry. I'm just a little angry right now.

I am so sick of people trying to screw with me and I'm the only one getting in trouble because of it.

Apparently, it's okay when other people insult me but if I defend myself and retaliate, I'm a troll.

Whatever. I'm sure I'll get banned soon enough and that will make 'em happy.

Well, This community tries to usually work like a family. I've been here for well over 2 years I'm pretty sure, and I've seen people come, go, become legendary, and possibly get banned. And I know you said the person you are is blunt and crude, but you have to take into account how you'll come across to other people. That's the trouble with online and foruming. You HAVE to bite your tongue sometimes even if you don't want to. You have to respect other people, as well as them having to respect you. If you feel your being targeted specifically then I'm sorry. But maybe you're coming across that way to other people.

either way. I'd hate to see any one banned for anything. *shrug* I'm sorry too. I didn't mean to come across as fighting with you. Try and Feel better. And enjoy they rest of the night/day. Whatever time it is where you are.

 

[GrimWhim]

Re: Girl Problems

It's lines like these that seem insulting and can be easily misinterpreted. What I get from this is that, in general, you think yourself of greater intelligence than others. It feels like you look down on people sometimes. It's fine to be blunt and maybe a little crude, but saying lines like the one above are what makes people angry. It's insulting, and people tend to fight fire with fire.

I ask because I have no idea what their problem with me is. It's not designed to be an insult but more to help me understand just exactly what's wrong and why people are so quick to get upset and/or angry. My opinion on people I know nothing about is neutral until their actions and words give me a general idea of what kind of person they are.

Well, This community tries to usually work like a family. I've been here for well over 2 years I'm pretty sure, and I've seen people come, go, become legendary, and possibly get banned. And I know you said the person you are is blunt and crude, but you have to take into account how you'll come across to other people. That's the trouble with online and foruming. You HAVE to bite your tongue sometimes even if you don't want to. You have to respect other people, as well as them having to respect you. If you feel your being targeted specifically then I'm sorry. But maybe you're coming across that way to other people.

either way. I'd hate to see any one banned for anything. *shrug* I'm sorry too. I didn't mean to come across as fighting with you. Try and Feel better. And enjoy they rest of the night/day. Whatever time it is where you are.

I bite my tongue more than I should, in fact, I'm certain I don't have a tongue at this point. I'm not offended nor easily upset by things most people are so I have a hard time realizing what I'm saying is going to set them off. Usually I can spot something like that before I go through with it but there are other times when I'm just saying how I feel and I don't notice that I've said something that can easily be misconstrued as hurtful or upsetting.

I do show respect to those who deserve it but there are others who are more concerned with trying to make me look like the bad guy than trying to get to know me or to figure out the truth. I'd gladly explain any of my posts further if someone just asked but as you can see by Noctus' posts, that is not the case. And yes, before you ask, most people act and react precisely how he did.

It's 9:25 PM but thank you.

 

[White_Howler]

Re: Girl Problems

I was merely trying to get you to understand that sometimes, the things you say are worded in a way that is easily misinterpreted. I've seen some constructive posts from you, but I tend to see your opinion more often. Not that it's a bad thing, just that sometimes what you say is easily read the wrong way.

Just tellin ya what I feel from you sometimes. I don't think you're a bad guy, or out to cause trouble. I think you just word things badly sometimes.

 

[Zjuggernaut]

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I ask because I have no idea what their problem with me is.

It's because over the internet, people can't see what emotions you're doing or whether or not you're being serious.

It's hard to detect sarcasm and people think you're being nice. It's hard to detect bluntness and people just think you're a douche.

 

[Sephiroxas]

Re: Girl Problems

It's because over the internet, people can't see what emotions you're doing or whether or not you're being serious.

It's hard to detect sarcasm and people think you're being nice. It's hard to detect bluntness and people just think you're a douche.

That's why I use as many smiley faces as I can, to re-enforce that I'm not trying to be hostile. :O ^_^ That's what they're there for!

I bite my tongue more than I should, in fact, I'm certain I don't have a tongue at this point. I'm not offended nor easily upset by things most people are so I have a hard time realizing what I'm saying is going to set them off. Usually I can spot something like that before I go through with it but there are other times when I'm just saying how I feel and I don't notice that I've said something that can easily be misconstrued as hurtful or upsetting.

I do show respect to those who deserve it but there are others who are more concerned with trying to make me look like the bad guy than trying to get to know me or to figure out the truth. I'd gladly explain any of my posts further if someone just asked but as you can see by Noctus' posts, that is not the case. And yes, before you ask, most people act and react precisely how he did.

It's 9:25 PM but thank you.

Well if it makes you feel any better. In Real Life, I generally come across as *****y sometimes without meaning to, sometimes I get constantly berraded and attacked for it, when I'm merely just trying to have a conversation.

The Best I got for ya, is re-read what you've written a million times before posting it, to avoid any future confrontation. :lol:

Either way.

Back to topic perhaps?:ninja:

 

[GrimWhim]

Re: Girl Problems

I was merely trying to get you to understand that sometimes, the things you say are worded in a way that is easily misinterpreted. I've seen some constructive posts from you, but I tend to see your opinion more often. Not that it's a bad thing, just that sometimes what you say is easily read the wrong way.

Just tellin ya what I feel from you sometimes. I don't think you're a bad guy, or out to cause trouble. I think you just word things badly sometimes.

You're right, I do and I try to tell people this but why listen to reason when you can just yell at them instead? I hate fighting so I don't understand why people think I would intentionally try to start a fight.

It's because over the internet, people can't see what emotions you're doing or whether or not you're being serious.

It's hard to detect sarcasm and people think you're being nice. It's hard to detect bluntness and people just think you're a douche.

You are also right. I try my best to carefully word something or explain something but often times I either complicate it or I don't explain it enough and it ends up like this.

I guess I should have refrained myself from posting in this thread to begin with though. I've been hurt so many times I've grown rather bitter and cold towards women.

That's why I use as many smiley faces as I can, to re-enforce that I'm not trying to be hostile. :O ^_^ That's what they're there for!

You know, I tried that and even then people would still twist my words and confuse what I'm trying to say. So I gave up and eventually I may just give up talking to people all together.

 

[droded]

Re: Girl Problems

If a key opens many locks, it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by many keys, then it's a crappy lock.

 

[Noctus]

Re: Girl Problems

Oh derp, my bad. I guess I don't know the definition of what a whore, prostitute, hooker, etc. is. Oh wait... I DO! But you said I was talking about sex when I clearly wasn't. So if anyone needs to shut up, it needs to be you.

You said find a hooker, you couldn't get any more sexual than that you f*cktard.

 

[Sephiroxas]

Re: Girl Problems

You said find a hooker, you couldn't get any more sexual than that you f*cktard.

Hey now, :getlost: we dealt with, escalated, and defused the situation. The same advice goes for you too. Doesn't matter what people say, you show respect and curtousy for everyone regardless of how they act. :hmm: