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Whats wrong with me!?

Re: Whats wrong with me!?

My life just seems to always wanna **** me off ¬__¬
take somthing that happened very recently for example, i was on the phone to my gf and she tells me about some guy at her school who keeps trying to "jump on" her, and he almost had his hand up her top, now is that a good enough excuse for smashing up the remeinder of my wardrobe? and probably going to her school and killing the kid? no not just kick the **** outta i mean kill. Dam i have issues, i need to talk to my shrink ¬__¬
 
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When you feel anger welling up, imagine a 6'2", 300pd guy with a stick in his hand is behind you, and will smack you around if you act crazy. He isn't there, but it may make you think for the second or two it takes to realize you were about to act out, and not do it.
 
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I have similar issues, or at least I did before. I think it was just part of the hormonal adjustment process to tell you the truth. Most of this blind rage happened when I was 15-17, yes I'd put cracks in walls and made people bleed, I've broken electronics (wireless connectors mostly) and even hurt myself (bruised my jaw and whatnot), but it all eventually passed.
I just sort of grew up and even though I still have violent tendencies, I can face the world with a little more sound judgment now.
 
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^ Yeah you could be right, Personally I don't need help, I jsut Over react a little too much, Had a bad day or something.

I could have that BPD thing But i kinda doubt it. But Thanks for the Information.
 
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Coprol Caboose;292762 said:
My life just seems to always wanna **** me off ¬__¬
take somthing that happened very recently for example, i was on the phone to my gf and she tells me about some guy at her school who keeps trying to "jump on" her, and he almost had his hand up her top, now is that a good enough excuse for smashing up the remeinder of my wardrobe? and probably going to her school and killing the kid? no not just kick the **** outta i mean kill. Dam i have issues, i need to talk to my shrink ¬__¬
No, your girlfriend needs to learn about boundaries and assert herself a bit more.
 
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^ Yeah she Shouldn't Been doing that with other guys, Even if The guys trying to do it. She needs to Just Walk away, And Tell you in a better way.. Kinda thing.

She shouldn't even hang out with the guy if hes like that. Thats sad, very sad.
 
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Oh my, you would scare me, if I was around with all the slamming of things. GF's won't stay for long. I think you have deep problems, that you don't address, or acknowledge. It has to come out somehow, so you hurt your poor head, and toys. Goodness, please don't get mad at me, but you are not a pacifist monk.;)
Sometimes talking about your feelings will lesson the pain on your poor self. :(

Are you mad at me?:unsure:
I really am trying to help.
 
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ScareCrowReturn;292965 said:
^ Hahahaha, Why would I be mad at you?
And i tend not to be angry around people, If i do get angry I kinda just Woddle off to my own place.
Glad to hear it. ^_^
 
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Tsuyu;292672 said:
Harsh truth is that the most of you have ADD. I can't see any other explanation.

Jesus H. Christ on a pogostick...

well...i'm diagnosed with ADHD......
honestly i think it's the source of most videogame and internet addiction.
also just want to add i'm not destructive at all unless vandalizing (which is never out of anger and always out of alcohol :D)

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Coprol Caboose;292762 said:
My life just seems to always wanna **** me off ¬__¬
take somthing that happened very recently for example, i was on the phone to my gf and she tells me about some guy at her school who keeps trying to "jump on" her, and he almost had his hand up her top, now is that a good enough excuse for smashing up the remeinder of my wardrobe? and probably going to her school and killing the kid? no not just kick the **** outta i mean kill. Dam i have issues, i need to talk to my shrink ¬__¬
i wouldn't kill him but that definitely warrants action. your girlfriend obviously didn't tell you because she thinks you need a new wardrobe, go have a nice and intimidating chat with him. tell him no more feely feely with your girl or your next meeting is heads out the window. :)
 
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I was diagnosed with ADD aswell, I honestly think you could diagnose any kid whos bored in school with it. I dont think there is sutch a thing as ADD, just a case of "I dont give a ****" in the classroom. There is no legitimate test to find ADD, just a questionare. and as for the hyperness, perhapts parents should stop buying there kids lucky charms, fruit rollups and soda every day. making them do their homework and study instead of playing GoW all day might help to. :rolleyes:
 
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TJ Griffin;293130 said:
I was diagnosed with ADD aswell, I honestly think you could diagnose any kid whos bored in school with it. I dont think there is sutch a thing as ADD, just a case of "I dont give a ****" in the classroom. There is no legitimate test to find ADD, just a questionare. and as for the hyperness, perhapts parents should stop buying there kids lucky charms, fruit rollups and soda every day. making them do their homework and study instead of playing GoW all day might help to. :rolleyes:

it is a proven genetic disorder. while i don't give a **** about school, i accept it as biological....
 
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I don't think anything is wrong with you. I just think you need to learn about yourself and avoid things that will make you this angry.

It sound like a load of crap but taking a few deep breaths DOES help. It gives you a couple extra seconds to think about things before you smash all of your valuables. Chances are, if you give yourself that moment to think about the consequences of snapping your phone or smashing your iPod, you won't do it.

Maybe you should invest in a punching bag, that seems to help some people. I have one myself and whenever I'm ****ed off and can't acceptedly hit the nearest person, it feels good to tune it up a little. I found a like new heavy bag on Craigslist for $50.

Basically, it comes down to your thought process before you lash out in an angry way. I take it you are pretty young and as time goes on, you will learn to deal with your anger effectively. Just try to stay rational during the times you feel yourself slipping off and anger taking place.