I hate how certain bands and types of music have been labelled as emo and then if you say "oh I love that song" or whatever, people start jumping up and down, pointing their finger at you and jabbering "burn the emo! burn the emo!"
I like to listen to music with sad or depressing lyrics sometimes because it suits my mood or I just adore that particular band/song - not because I'm trying to make the world feel sorry for me.
Same with clothes - I like black. Sorry, but I do. Doesn't mean I'm about to reach for the razor blades though. There are people out there who cut themselves as a way of coping - like any self-destructive action (drinking, drugs etc) - and these middle-class idiots who can't cope with daddy's credit card and mummy's endless loving support take away from the true pain of those going through some really tough times and not knowing a better way of dealing with their emotional turmoil.