Sexual Awkwardness

[LobotomizedLOVE]

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@Angel: You make a lot of good points, it makes me feel like I should respect my man a bit more... ^^;
But really, I like your thinking though I'd have to disagree with you about socks. I'll take them off but I'd rather not have to see/feel Matt's feet near me because they're HORRIFYING. I mean, I've seen ugly feet but his are like a cross between a hobbit and bird of prey. >.o

 

[Angel]

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:lol:

Can't argue with that - I just cannot take any man seriously when he's naked apart from a pair of socks. It just feels...wrong... :lol:

Well, he likes you, you like him and between you you're bound to work something out where the shirt doesn't bug you and his self-esteem shoots up thanks to making you a happy lady in the bedroom. Shortly after that, his shirt issue will most likely disappear altogether as he gains more confidence...

 

[LobotomizedLOVE]

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Yea, good point. Meh. Why do men have to be so damn difficult? ><

 

[Angel]

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Because we get periods, pregnancy, raging hormonal problems etc etc... it's only fair that they get something to be awkward over too

 

[Nekaku]

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This did take an odd turn, didn't it? Wow...

 

[LobotomizedLOVE]

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Nah, this was a surprisingly good conversation actually. ^^
I got a few ideas on how to deal with my little issue now...mwahahahahahahaa...

 

[Nekaku]

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lol

Well, don't kill him.

 

[LobotomizedLOVE]

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Oh no, he wouldn't be nearly half as fun dead.

 

[Nekaku]

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lol

That would make since...

 

[Silver.]

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Oh no, he wouldn't be nearly half as fun dead.

..Would he be twice as fun?

When I had a bit of weight on me i was really self-conscious about my figure and what people thought of me. I almost fit description of him, I hated taking my top off, especially during sex.

We may think differently but i'm telling you that trying to comfort him about his weight and that you don't care will make him feel real uneasy.

Just my opinion though, hope you work it out.

 

[Xeon]

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.. your joking, right?
...
if you've only been going out for five months, then why
do you want to get his shirt off?
you should be doing stuff like that after the first year!

You're joking, right?

 

[Nekaku]

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You're joking, right?

Would you rather go with what he thinks or what I think? I believe in Only doing that stuff when your married.

 

[Xeon]

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I believe in hitting that if there's chemestry and hitting it good.

 

[Nekaku]

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And I believe that is not only immoral but barbaric.

 

[Tsuyu]

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Barbaric? We're not talking rape here...

We're talking sweet, sweet consensual pre-martial giggety-go!

 

[Xeon]

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And I believe that is not only immoral but barbaric.

are your parents married and/or jesus crazy?

 

[Silver.]

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Well.... No, no, you're right, not rape.

 

[Nekaku]

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My parents are divorced. And My Dad is, yes. But Seeing as how I've only lived with him for two years... It's not that much of an impact.

 

[cheezMcNASTY]

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my guess is his experience and exposure to such things is limited.
the solution:
start watching porn together

maybe not exactly that... but just start pushing back his comfort zone a little til he gets used to it. it may be uncomfortable but he may thank you for it!

 

[Nekaku]

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