Sexual Awkwardness
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You know... I'd have to say, that this is really disgusting now... And I do not plan on doing that, because Like I said, that kind of behavior is barbaric, vulgar and immoral. That is as my mind set is. I doubt that you could ever change it.
You know... I'd have to say, that this is really disgusting now... And I do not plan on doing that, because Like I said, that kind of behavior is barbaric, vulgar and immoral. That is as my mind set is. I doubt that you could ever change it.
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No, I think sex with anyone outside of marriage is barbaric. Sleeping with anyone and everyone you have feelings for, For guys that would be nearly every "kinda" good looking to the Most beutiful ever lived. Thats just stupid.
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There becomes a physical bond between two if they have sex. And that isn't a problem, When it's only gonna be the TWO of you for the rest of your lives. Otherwise, it's giving a piece of yourself to someone that is just gonna barely remember you ten years from now.
No, I think sex with anyone outside of marriage is barbaric. Sleeping with anyone and everyone you have feelings for, For guys that would be nearly every "kinda" good looking to the Most beutiful ever lived. Thats just stupid.
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There becomes a physical bond between two if they have sex. And that isn't a problem, When it's only gonna be the TWO of you for the rest of your lives. Otherwise, it's giving a piece of yourself to someone that is just gonna barely remember you ten years from now.
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I say Killing is wrong and Immoral, Do you think I should go try that on the next person I see, just to see if I feel the same afterwards?
Tsuyu;323050 said:
I say Killing is wrong and Immoral, Do you think I should go try that on the next person I see, just to see if I feel the same afterwards?
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Well, there has been experiments with evidence showing that those that had a really nasty break up and they had Sex with their partner, they have a higher Suicide rating than those that didn't... I wonder if that has anything to do with the physical connection of Sex? Maybe once you have Sex, your body physically NEEDS to stay with that ONE person.
Well, there has been experiments with evidence showing that those that had a really nasty break up and they had Sex with their partner, they have a higher Suicide rating than those that didn't... I wonder if that has anything to do with the physical connection of Sex? Maybe once you have Sex, your body physically NEEDS to stay with that ONE person.
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No, that makes Having sex before there is a concrete commitment "TEH EVIL!"
Because once you've had sex, you can't get that piece of your heart back. That person will have it the rest of their lives, God forbid it be short.
No, that makes Having sex before there is a concrete commitment "TEH EVIL!"
Because once you've had sex, you can't get that piece of your heart back. That person will have it the rest of their lives, God forbid it be short.
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And of course holy marriage is a holy state of grace that is totally flawless and never ever ends?
Jeesh.
Stop living with your head up in the clouds - marriage is a more serious commitment, yes, but that also means that the fallout between the two are much more devastating when they happen. There is a much higher rate of suicide as the results of divorce, custody battles and all that which follows than there will ever be of the "teenage flirt" breaking up. Marriage isn't a perfect relationship at all. Only in movies and in The Bible.
And of course holy marriage is a holy state of grace that is totally flawless and never ever ends?
Jeesh.
Stop living with your head up in the clouds - marriage is a more serious commitment, yes, but that also means that the fallout between the two are much more devastating when they happen. There is a much higher rate of suicide as the results of divorce, custody battles and all that which follows than there will ever be of the "teenage flirt" breaking up. Marriage isn't a perfect relationship at all. Only in movies and in The Bible.
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Do not think I don't know about Divorce! Do not assume me an innocent! I am not a fool! My mom and dad are divorced, My dad divorced again just last year. My mom when I was in second grade. I am not ignorent, nor do I live in the clouds.
It used to be that when divorced, All in the matter are of the upmost disgrace. It used to be that marriage was nearly the most perfect thing in the world. It was that way when it was Taught that It was WRONG to have sex outside Marriage. That changed. Now it's okay to have sex out of wed-lock. And now the divorce rate has went up over 75% since the 1800's. And as for the Bible, Lets see, King David, He had sex with many, ofcourse God disciplined. Davids own son raped his other daughter.
Do not think I don't know about Divorce! Do not assume me an innocent! I am not a fool! My mom and dad are divorced, My dad divorced again just last year. My mom when I was in second grade. I am not ignorent, nor do I live in the clouds.
It used to be that when divorced, All in the matter are of the upmost disgrace. It used to be that marriage was nearly the most perfect thing in the world. It was that way when it was Taught that It was WRONG to have sex outside Marriage. That changed. Now it's okay to have sex out of wed-lock. And now the divorce rate has went up over 75% since the 1800's. And as for the Bible, Lets see, King David, He had sex with many, ofcourse God disciplined. Davids own son raped his other daughter.
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Then why, if you've witnessed the ugly side of marriage personally, do you insist with this "No-no to pre-marital sex!"- bullcrap?
People don't have to be married to love each other. Sometimes they can be even more in love than some couple who have been married for 10-20 years and starting to grow tired of each other! And if they have sex then... well, so what?
Then why, if you've witnessed the ugly side of marriage personally, do you insist with this "No-no to pre-marital sex!"- bullcrap?
People don't have to be married to love each other. Sometimes they can be even more in love than some couple who have been married for 10-20 years and starting to grow tired of each other! And if they have sex then... well, so what?
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Why, because it's not Bullcrap to me. No matter how many divorces ther are, the studies still show that those that have sex out of wed-lock, nearly never stay together. They have sex with many others untill they get married. And then they cheat on their wives... And husbands. That sort has increased since they stopped believing it wrong to divorce and pre-marital sex.
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Why, because it's not Bullcrap to me. No matter how many divorces ther are, the studies still show that those that have sex out of wed-lock, nearly never stay together. They have sex with many others untill they get married. And then they cheat on their wives... And husbands. That sort has increased since they stopped believing it wrong to divorce and pre-marital sex.
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Not as much as it used to be
One of my friends thought it would be a good idea to "safe" himself for a woman, now he spends 24 hours a day with his girlfriend. Now that's unhealthy
Opposed to comitting suicide because your girl won't give it up? Or comitting rape because of sexual frustation? Since when is sex a physical connection, sex is nothing but physical. You don't have to have sex to show love and affection. They might go hand in hand but they don't have to
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Not as much as it used to be
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One of my friends thought it would be a good idea to "safe" himself for a woman, now he spends 24 hours a day with his girlfriend. Now that's unhealthy
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Opposed to comitting suicide because your girl won't give it up? Or comitting rape because of sexual frustation? Since when is sex a physical connection, sex is nothing but physical. You don't have to have sex to show love and affection. They might go hand in hand but they don't have to
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Exactly. They still cheat on their significant others. And this is irregardless of whether-or-not they had premarital sex. In fact, people who "got the wilds" out of their system before settling down are more likely to remain faithful to their partner in marriage because they, as I said, "got the wilds" out of their system early. As you said "They have sex with many others until they get married".
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Exactly. They still cheat on their significant others. And this is irregardless of whether-or-not they had premarital sex. In fact, people who "got the wilds" out of their system before settling down are more likely to remain faithful to their partner in marriage because they, as I said, "got the wilds" out of their system early. As you said "They have sex with many others until they get married".
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So, everyone has become to week to do morrally right actions. They are all slaves to their instincts, not dialects.
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So, everyone has become to week to do morrally right actions. They are all slaves to their instincts, not dialects.
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no, no, you've got it all wrong. if i decide to have sex with everything that moves (it HAS crossed my mind) then won't everyone else who is looking for commitment be miserable? i'm pretty sure i'd be the one who is happy as a clam....until all of the drugs wore off at least
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no, no, you've got it all wrong. if i decide to have sex with everything that moves (it HAS crossed my mind) then won't everyone else who is looking for commitment be miserable? i'm pretty sure i'd be the one who is happy as a clam....until all of the drugs wore off at least
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That's because what is "morally right" in most religious aspects goes against our human nature. Of course we're slaves to our instincts, all animals are. We humans just fool ourselves that we're "better" for some reason.
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That's because what is "morally right" in most religious aspects goes against our human nature. Of course we're slaves to our instincts, all animals are. We humans just fool ourselves that we're "better" for some reason.
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My parents got divorced a year after I was born, they got back together, had my brother and split up again, made up again and all was good for now..... at least untill my mom kicked my dad out a week after I moved away
They're got friends today and we mess a lot with my brother. (bastard child jokes and how our parents would stick together for me but not for him)
My parents got divorced a year after I was born, they got back together, had my brother and split up again, made up again and all was good for now..... at least untill my mom kicked my dad out a week after I moved away
They're got friends today and we mess a lot with my brother. (bastard child jokes and how our parents would stick together for me but not for him
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